Is it normal that my boyfriend picks out my flaws? and why is he doing it?

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My boyfriend of 6 years and father to our 5 year old, has been becoming withdrawn from me, he more quieter than ever and I’m not used to the silence, and walk on eggs shells when he’s home because of his anger when I question the quietness.

But anyway, I’ve been breaking out severely on my jawline ever since we’ve been fighting extra much these past 5 months.. and there are days were he stares at my face and pimples and says “why do you have so many scars? It must be all those drugs you used to do when you were younger” or “it’s because your friends used to tell you to pop your pimples” or “it’s because you were a hoe” or “it’s because you didn’t take care of your face right, you would just half face it and say ‘ok I’m done’ “ he belittled me and makes me feel bad about having a couple of acne scars on my cheeks.

Am I in love with the wrong person?

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Sounds like he may be stressed. Whatever the reason, his behavior isn't acceptable or normal.

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  • e51pegasi
    6 years ago

    He's a stinker, no one deserves to be belittled like that. Tell him how he makes you feel.

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  • Aethylfritha
    6 years ago

    No if any guy said that to me he'd not have teeth anymore.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    He sounds like someone who is unworthy of your love, honey.

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  • Ilokana
    6 years ago

    He's stressed and he's taking it out on you for some reason. You should remind him that you are not an emotional punching bag. Or just pick out his flaws too.

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    That's not good. He should apologize and treat you better. If he is going through a rough time you should help him if you can. Just try not to get hurt. Also tell him how you're feeling too

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Yes.

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    • [Old Memory]
      6 years ago

      Troll. You know I've seen your other shit. No one should take you seriously.

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      • [Old Memory]
        6 years ago

        Perhaps you were drunk when you made this comment, because it’s in family.

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