Is it normal that my boyfriend never fucks me but jerks off while i'm

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 years. During the beginning of our relationship, he attempted to have sex with me OFTEN, although he never got a super hard dick. He would usually just have me suck him off. Some mornings I would wake up while he masturbates BUT as soon as he realized I was awake he would make me suck him to finish.

Eventually he stopped having me suck him, and would just jerk off into a sock. He even views porn while I'm sleeping and masturbates. When I wake up (I usually do because the bed shakes), he doesn't even try to fuck me, he just goes on with his jerking RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME, AS HE IGNORES ME!

I've looked through his phone and he talks dirty to a girl from LA that he's hooked up with (before we were serious)
I get the feeling he's fucked and satisfied her, but NOT me. EVER! I am so unsatisfied that it's beginning to frustrate me and make me very depressed.

Sex doesn't mean a lot to me so I don't want to throw away my relationship for this reason. But it's hurting me. I don't know what to do...

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  • loopoo
    10 years ago

    Dump him, his behaviour is selfish.

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  • infernalslut
    10 years ago

    Another thing I want to add is he is into cuckolding. He gets really hard when he imagines or sees me suck another dick, especially a bigger one. I don't know why or if that even has to do with my situation

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Um...no. That's not normal.

    I guess myself, It's more important to please the woman that I'm with than to just get mine...so I guess I can't wrap my mind around that.

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    Talk to him, tell him how you feel.

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  • 69
    10 years ago

    being in a practically sexless relationship will make you constantly frustrated and your self-esteem will be more and more shattered as it drags on. i know that ending ANY relationship is hard, even really bad ones which you get nothing out of, but getting out of it is the best thing one can do. no relationship is worth feeling, or worse, believing you are not good enough. also he seems both selfish and uninterested in you sexually. call me old fashioned but even if sex doesn't mean a lot to you, it should be an expression of your love for each other and bond you together

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    He's probably not attracted to you. Which makes sense, since you're ugly as fuck.

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    • infernalslut
      10 years ago

      I'm actually a published model. Very cute, and I keep my body in tip-top shape. So I know it has nothing to do with me being "ugly"...

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Keep trollin faggot

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        • infernalslut
          10 years ago

          I am queer and would prefer if you could have some CLASS and not use those types of slurs

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            So what are you gonna do about it? Faggot.

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            • infernalslut
              10 years ago

              you honestly sound like yr in the closet. at least i have the balls to be honest about it LOL

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