Is it normal that my boyfriend never communicates with me?

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating 1 year now. He works 5 minutes from the house. He went from taking lunch breaks everyday to never taking lunch breaks at all. He is also late from work every day. HOURS LATE with no heads up or anything. I have talked to him about this but he doesn't seem to listen or even care much. He usually calls me in the afternoon saying "I'll take lunch in 10, ill be there soon". He NEVER shows up and doesn't tell me anything until 3 hours later. If anything ill start sending his lunches with him. I understand he's at work I just don't understand why he can't give me a heads up or communicate with me if he's going to be hours late from work or not taking lunch breaks. Is this normal or am I overdoing it?

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Based on 48 votes (14 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Maybe he's cheating?

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  • thatchickyouhate
    10 years ago

    i don't know if I agree with all the cheating theories (unless he's doing this to bait you in order to get caught to end the relationship, but
    that seems unnecessarily complicated...)

    however, he has lost respect for you and that's not something you can make him change. if he's treating you like this now, for no apparent reason, it only gets worse from here.

    time to stand up for yourself and walk away.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Your 'relationship' is over.

    It sounds like he's trying to send you the message but you're just not getting it.

    Sometimes people have a hard time telling the person they're with they want out so they intentionally do things to make the other person stop liking them or want to break up.

    It's a chicken shit thing to do but it sounds like that's what he's doing.

    No matter what he clearly doesn't care about you anymore so you should totally break it off with him.

    Disappearing after work for hours = cheating or trying to cheat.

    He doesn't come home for lunch anymore because he likes someone else and is either spending time with them or he just can't face you so he avoids you.

    Sounds like he's fucking a coworker.

    If you want to know the truth, show up at his work just before lunch without telling him and SEE who he's with or follow him to see where he goes to eat and who he talks to.

    There's clearly someone else.

    Sorry.

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  • Wuggums47
    10 years ago

    You should break it off with him. If you don't break it off, then you're going to be like this for a long time more, and then eventually he will propose to you, and you'll say yes, and you'll have children, and you will be raising his children by yourself, and doing all the housework. Even if he stops working at this place, he has already proven that he cares more about his job than you, and that is unnaceptable.

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