Is it normal that my boyfriend loves me and hates me in the same time?

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My boyfriend and I love each other so much although sometimes he can give me so much hate like we are the worst enemies... It hurts so bad and he doesnt understand it himself.
I have depression and whenever i feel down he feels hate to me when he isint able to cheer me up. He's becoming so mean like all the love is gone and it just makes me want to cry...

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  • MistakeMaker
    7 years ago

    Yesssi understand i have really bad depression. And my boyfriend finds it annoying. If something changes my mood and i get upset he gets mad and makes fun of me. Or if i tell him im insecure about something that makes me cry he gets mad. And makes jokes about my inse urities.thengets mad when i dont find the humor. Im Boring.

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  • (s)aint
    7 years ago

    You have to understand that being with someone who battles depression can be a REAL pain to him as well.

    Far too many people get involved with people who has these issues, believing that they and their love can save them.
    When they can´t ... they get frustrated.

    You need a therapist and some friends to take he burden off your boyfriend. He is your lover and your support, yes. BUt he cannot be the only one.

    If he´s mean to you when you are sad that´s not good.
    But if you are mean first because you are depressed it´s just a natural response.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    Love hurts. Couple that fights together stays together.

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