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My boyfriend & I were talking the other day about how he likes it when I cry especially if it's over him. He says he likes being able to wipe away my tears & when it's over him he feels very cared about & stuff.
Is that normal for him to like that? :L
He's probably one of those people that fantasize about their funeral and what will say. So I voted no.
From what I've pieced together from relationships and guy friends, I think guys really want to take care of their girlfriends/wives. In this day, so many of us know how to do everything on our own and rarely ask for help. It's like set in a man's DNA to care for, protect and save the ones he loves, especially women. When we cry it's the ultimate signal for "help" without any wariness. They know they can often sweep in and make us feel better or take care of us and become the hero for the moment. When it comes to crying over him, I think guys feel a bit happy because again, crying is admitting something deep and crying over him must mean you feel deeply over him and that's what all men wish for. I know this sounds cliché but honestly (in my humble opinion) I feel men are simple in their needs. All they really want is food, nookie ;) and for you to love and need them.
At first I thought no, but in a caring big brotherly kinda way, yeah maybe.