Is it normal that my boyfriend is visiting dating sites?

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I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and I just recently found out that he made a profile on a transsexual dating site. I don't give a shit what kind of crazy shit he's into, I don't think there's anything wrong with him watching transsexual porn or anything but he made this account with a headline that says "looking for a tranny to f***" or something like that.

I've caught him looking up escort services and I confronted him about it but he said he was just curious. Now he is using a secret e-mail to go on dating sites. He's gonna cheat on me if I don't leave him.. isn't he? :(

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  • MagickWithoutTears
    12 years ago

    Not making excuses for him, but it seems like he's genuinely curious and looking to scratch his itch. Going behind your back is definitely not right. At this point you need to sit down with him and discuss the situation. If you're not comfortable with it, then he needs to agree to completely stop.

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    • ladyday
      12 years ago

      I did confront him and he said he just found the site from a pop-up (which I believe) and it was just a spur of the moment while he's horny kind of thing, which I also believe. He's not a slimy or deceitful person, he's really awesome and he felt guilty about it, so I forgave him. I think he was embarrassed too and I know he doesn't like that.. I also gave him a little taste of what it would feel like to lose me and I know he doesn't like that either. His last girlfriend was psycho and would have probably chased him with a knife or something, so my reaction made him realize how good he has it ;) We talked about our fantasies and how he needs to open up more. Things are good. :)

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  • 8Serene8
    12 years ago

    Good luck there but don't be surprised if he stays using sites like that....

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  • 8Serene8
    12 years ago

    Uhm if he's on those sites saying he wants to f*** someone then yes either he has already cheated on you or he plans to. It's totally different if he was just looking at porn like that but dating sites is a bad sign.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Who said he didn't already? You should leave him. Just him creating a secret email to continue this shit proves that he doesn't care about you. Let him enjoy his trannies and hopefully catches a nice permanent STI.

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