Is it normal that my boyfriend is this much of a slob?

He pees on the floor every time he goes, and I'm the one who has to clean it up because he never does, even when I leave a mop sitting next to the toilet. He doesn't wear underwear and ends up leaving skid marks on about half the pants he wears even though he showers daily and wears clean pants every day, and fairly often I find skid marks on the bed sheets too. It really grosses me out to do his laundry. And when we're in bed, he is constantly picking at/scratching his balls and sniffing his fingers. And then he tries to touch my face without washing his hands, and gets upset when I tell him his fingers smell like sweaty testicles. So is it normal for a guy to be this gross even when his girlfriend has to clean up after him?

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Comments ( 21 )
  • Anime7

    That's not normal. If he's such a slob, why are you still with him?

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  • SirDaedalus

    I am afraid that your boyfriend gets off on making you do these disgusting things, it certainly sounds like it.

    I suggest leaving him.

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  • bumblecreek

    based on what you described, he seems like a dog trapped in a human body.

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  • ccjigsaw

    "So is it normal for a guy to be this gross even when his girlfriend has to clean up after him?"
    Of coarse he's going ot keep doing it :/ You make it easy for him. Not to say he's going to stop if you don't clean up after him, but it does encourage bad behaviour. If you're living with him, move into your own place and let him stink up him own home. If he starts wanting to come over to your house, tell him only if he keeps clean, if he doesn't, send him back to his stink hole.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    What CCJ said is right.

    Right now he's got no need to change - not while you're playing Mommy and cleaning up after him.

    have you told him that this bothers you? i mean i know you said the stink-hand does but what about the other stuff? how did he react?

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  • ChaoticBunny

    Are you dating a monkey?

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  • lol1055

    what are some kind of neat freak? my girlfriend and are allot more messy than that, we must be slobs, you really need to lower your standards or find a new boyfriend. we only shower like twice a week and we love smoking inside.

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  • Drakonski

    He should at least skidmark undies rather than the insides of his pants.

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  • walrus101

    what the fuck...

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  • nightmare28

    Of course every girl wants a guy who is neat, clean, pee while sitting down, etc...
    Only problem is that those guys usually already got a boyfriend.

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  • alv1592

    That is really gross...maybe you should break up with him. Or tell him he needs to clean up after himself.

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  • JustHer

    I don't think that's normal..you need to tell him off!
    but I can empathise with you slightly, my ex used to pee on the floor everytime he went..
    but we didn't even live together..
    and I lived with my parents
    it was awkward

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  • nobodyspecial

    Tell him to clean up his act or he must find a maid to clean up after his shit

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  • logan2556

    uhh i do alot of that stuff but i dont piss on the floor and leave shit stains every where and i wash my hands. you should tell him to wipe his ass and use better aim.

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  • Avant-Garde

    If he's that sloberiffic he won't change. Why waste your time with someone that grosses you out?! It would make more sense to leave him.

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  • Sounds pretty normal to me. Its good to hear that you understand what your role and place is by making sure his laundry is done and the bathroom is clean. You, as a women, need to understand that making sure everything is clean is your job.

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  • ITgirl232

    all guys r messy at one time or another. for this one, it's ALL the time.

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  • Daxus

    what I don´t think is normal is you being with such a person even though you are disgusted by him. You should leave him and you should go to a psychologist. Hvae some respect for yourself.

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    Um, i'm a guy and I could never dream of being that nasty. I wasn't that disgusting when I lived on my own, and i'm even cleaner now that my fiance cleans up our place.

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  • NotSoMuch

    He could be suffering from some kind of mental illness. Have you ever talked to or asked his family about his behavior?

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  • rock-chick

    not da fuck normal thats over the top

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