Is it normal that my boyfriend is mean when he's high?

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He's so sweet and kind when he's sober. He wants to cuddle all the time and just be with me. But when he's high he just wants to have sex or else have nothing to do with me. If I try talking to him sometimes he tells me to leave him alone. He also falls asleep. It's annoying, really. I don't care if he smokes or drinks, but I hate how he acts when he does. If I'm under some sort of influence I'd want to laugh with him and tell jokes but he's just quiet and submissive. He's also the only person I've met who's like this. Is it normal?

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Based on 81 votes (26 yes)
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Comments ( 11 )
  • Mando
    11 years ago

    Well maybe you should care. Red flag for a problem relationship.

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago

    Yes, it's normal. Try to avoid getting high with him, though. It definitely doesn't sound nice.

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    • Thewomanizer
      11 years ago

      you again lol

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Find someone else. Life is too short to waste with someone who is mean whether they're high or not.

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  • SceedarMoon
    11 years ago

    Im sort of the same way.... If you are talking too much i will straight up tell you to shut the fuck up. When people are loud it trips me out and ruins my high. Just sit there and stare at a wall with him:P

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  • deathbringer
    11 years ago

    duh ;)

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  • deathbringer
    11 years ago

    p.s. as long as he is not doing anything to harm you

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  • MRmr
    11 years ago

    Guys dont need girls when they got their weed

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    Normal. If your not blowing him, you're blowing his buzz.

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  • smithj1846
    11 years ago

    Hay jus leave him the fuck alone when he high when I tell my lady I am abt to smoke I go in the other room n she leave me be n I stay in the room n mediated on my thoughts n I come out better then b4 I am happy she happy n she happy I am happy

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  • deathbringer
    11 years ago

    smoking weed can make you extra horny and if he is smoking weed i dont think it is the weed tself that makes him mean ..possibly you are annoying him and you should just let him enjoy being high...dont act different towards him just because he is on a drug

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