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My boyfriend is never horny it's always me. Imma girl btw. He wants to have sex like twice every four months. And he has a tickling fetish that I hate. Is that normal?
If he's always been like this, it could be normal for him. Some men just have a low sex drive. There could also be other underlying factors, like stress or a low testosterone level, which a doctor's test could detect. But the real question is not, "Is this normal?" but "Can you live comfortably with this?" Have you tried letting him know that you want it more often? Tell him how badly you want him and how you ache for him to touch your body. Even if he doesn't want sex, he could do other things to you to keep you satisfied.
No. And using "imma" likely means you're pretty young - yet already in a sexless relationship! That's not normal. So perhaps it would be more to the point to ask: do you really see this going anywhere?
my fiance is like that, but he works a lot and is often too tired. How old is he? once men are over the 18-20 mark they sometimes have a decreased sex drive (they hit their sexual peak at around 18) and that is totally normal.
As for the tickling thing, just tell him you hate it and don't do it any more. If he still keeps trying then obviously he doesn't respect you or your wishes very much.
Your boyfriend watches too much porn. That's the problem, as simple as that.
Surprisingly, there really can be such a thing as "too much porn." Google it; it's apparently a thing now even for young guys. They can't get it up with a real woman unless they're doing some fetish thing or acting out increasingly raunchy porn. After a while of becoming desensitized, he'll have to watch his girlfriend stomp on tomatoes and hamsters while wearing high heels or wear someone else's dirty diapers even to get a semi.
The good news is that if he can put down the shitting-dick-nipple-tentacle-rape-tickle porn and rewire his brain to appreciate a loving and willing girlfriend, he'll be fine.
Of course, the other possibility is that he just has a really low sex drive. Some men do, and they're fundamentally incompatible with partners who love the D.
I'm a girl and I have this problem but I suffer depression I don't want to put bad ideas in your head but is he cheating? That's what my ex was like?
Hi! I’m a girl and I have a tickling fetish where I love my feet tickled. I kind of understand where your boyfriend is coming from because sometimes I don’t really want to have sex I just want to be tickled. I started off only liking tickling actually, but now I’m into stuff like blowjobs too. I’m not sure if this helps or not, but I hope it gives you some more insight!
My bf was born with an extra chromosome which gave him a high voice, an inability to grow facial hair, and a diminished sex drive. He is now on monthly testosterone injections and a lot has changed.
I knew a guy that got sex once a YEAR in his marriage. That was due to a chemical imbalance that can happen to either gender. It could be something like this.
Try exploring his fetish. Why not? Maybe he has related fetishes too. Does he want to be dominated?
He prolly masterbated alot because you don't want to have sex all the time, and when you do want to have sex her prolly masterbated 3 times already that day.
You should get down to him he will soon respond, that is his 'cock will ' then he can get down to you and have a ball or two. sorry, for the pun . But just sit on him after getting down to his cock mmm its getting me going thats for sure
Well i mean he doesnt want you, he likes tickling, and im the first one to this spot so all arrows are pointing to(sadly but rather likely) he is gay, try asking him he may not even know it.
This is normal, you ignorant people.
In reality, and you KNOW this is true, girls are always hornier.
Quit worrying about getting dick and find a real problem in your filthy life.
No that's not normal. I would have sex every hour of every day if I could.
how old is he? lots of factors could b at play. libido drops off for many life style choices, hormone inbalances or mental health issues. medication and troubles in relationship.