Is it normal that my boyfriend hides his wallet from me?

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OK so my boyfriend and I have been together about 8 months. Recently we had a bit of a problem and he left for 5 days. Now this was several months ago, but ever since his return he has continuously been hiding his wallet his phone his keys and anything else that you would consider a personal item. I often question this if it is him preparing to leave again, but when I ask him he says he is not hiding anything that he simply is putting it in places for safekeeping. Maybe it's just me but it seems like the safe keeping is just simply keeping it from me. We are very much homebodies I am a homemaker and he is a factory worker so it's not like there is a lot of people here constantly. We never and I mean never have company so the fear is not to keep it up because of worry was other people Seems his problem is with me and I think at its root it's that he doesn't trust me

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    5 years ago

    Yeah it sounds like he definitely doesn't trust you. What's the point in being with someone that thinks you're going to steal his stuff?

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  • e51pegasi
    5 years ago

    What was the "bit of a problem" about? Was is a financial problem, or a fidelity issue? You have been a couple for 8 months & you're cohabiting is that right ?

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    • Whatever23
      5 years ago

      Yes. And the problem was that 2 of his ex girlfriends showed up at my house with a baby claiming it was his. Of course he denies it and we had a subsequent fight, he left.

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        Girl, he ain't no good!

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      • e51pegasi
        5 years ago

        That is some shit you have going on there. In answer to your initial question after reading your reply, no it is not normal for him to hide his stuff like that.

        His behaviour would be setting of huge alarm bells & massive flashing red lights in my head if I was in your position, but I think you realise this already.

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        • Whatever23
          5 years ago

          Yep but i guess anonymous internet confirmation has helped aid me in some ways. Thanks

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          • e51pegasi
            5 years ago

            Good luck.

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  • itachi_uchiha
    5 years ago

    Lmao....Didn't read the whole post but the question is making me laugh very bad😂

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  • Nickvey
    5 years ago

    could be he was missing some cash during your stay or during another woman's stay and he is just cautious. so it might not be your fault. had a roommate in college buy new sheets and he put them in his thee foot long storage draw under his bed and lost them. he suspected i stole them for cash? right. so a few months latter he moves out, then at the years end im checking out the room to make sure its completly empty and i find the retards sheets way in the back, they are the color of the wood. so this pot smoking imbecile thought i was a thief simply because he has a low IQ . it worked out well for me because i got lonely and started fucking the little virgin girl the sat in the TV lounge by herself. she was so tight she couldnt even use a tampon , i got to wear it out.

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  • lonewolf1253
    5 years ago

    If he doesn't trust you, I don't see much future for you two.

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  • redrainbow22
    5 years ago

    Maybe thats just how he is?

    Some people are just picky with their things. Believe me.

    He's your boyfriend, why would he not trust you?

    I wouldn't automatically assume that.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    I won't tell you what to do, since I am no expert. But I will tell you what happened to me. My father used to hide his wallet from me, saying that I am an idiot and that I am likely to steal and waste his money. I was starving and having a horrible life living with him. Not only that he hated me, but I also had to suffer from this attitude. I was innocent and I deservd nothing like this. My decision was very clear. I will allow nobody to treat me that way for the rest of my life. Now you draw your own conclusion about what to do.

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