Is it normal that my boyfriend googles shemales?

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I was going to the bathroom and my boyfriend left his phone out. I wanted to check the time and once I pressed the menu key on his blackberry it was on google. He had searched shemales. I asked him about it and he denied it so I just assumed he was embarrassed and was curious. Then I was checking my hotmail account but since we live together his account was still logged on. There was a subscription to a shemale fantasy website. I again asked him what was up and he denied he had ever even seen the website. I dropped it and thought maybe it was spam mail until I looked on my iPod touch that someone had last looked at shemales...so my question is, is this normal? Could it be that my boyfriend is gay or maybe bisexual?

We have been together for 3 years.

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  • MikaRose
    13 years ago

    He could be embarrassed that you caught him looking at porn, or thought you would be mad, it could mean two things.
    1. He would like you to have a strap on and ..ya
    2. he likes it when woman get a strap on and do it with other woman..(in this case having a real dick I guess)

    but it doesn't necesarily mean he is gay, just has weird fetishes .. shemales are there for a reason, he still likes looking at woman so.. it kind of depends what kind of shemales he is looking at..are they having sex with men? woman? other shemales? (Rhetorical question, you kinda just have to sit him down and talk about fetishes)

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  • la_uva_mojada
    13 years ago

    If it would have been one isolated incident.. perhaps he just could have been bored and whatever, but three different times? What the hell??!? How many things HAVEN'T you found??!!? Sounds really fishy to me. And he sounds immature, caught off guard, or both from denying it each time when it's so obvious. It almost seems like he's wanting to be caught, leaving it out to be found 3 different times. Seems bizarre to me. I've known of men carrying on with gay lovers while having a wife and kids at home, and that could, aside from being cheat on. Your health could be at stake so this definitely shouldn't be swept under the rug! Although it's extra complicated to distance yourself because you live together. Does he have a lot of time with his friends when you aren't welcome? Have you caught him lying about very many things before this? If this was me, I would mess with him by leaving behind random sexual items like condoms, men's thong underwear, etc and wait for him to ask you about it, and say the same thing he's said and maybe he'll realize what a creepy douche he's being.

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    • iiznrml?
      13 years ago

      Leaving behind condoms and mens thongs is much worse than looking at porn. Don't leave physical items.

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  • merkel204
    13 years ago

    no it does mean hes gay,the woman part is just a cover.

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