Is it normal that my boyfriend fingers me over my clothes?

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So me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5 months. we hang out all the time, like regularly. But whenever we start heavily kissing or get sexual or something, he starts fingering me. but not under my clothes, i don't let him go that far. he fingers me like over my jeans, shorts, or leggings or whatever i'm wearing for pants. i think he's just trying to get me to have an orgasm ?? idk i don't understand men, all i know is that they get horny wayy too easily. but is it normal that he does that?? Why does he?? I would like it if you guys would comment telling me stuff. plz and thank youu

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  • disthing
    10 years ago

    Yes it's normal, it's all part of foreplay.

    He probably thinks you enjoy the feeling, like many (most) women do. If you don't like it or find it perplexing, maybe you should tell him you don't enjoy it?

    It sounds like you might not be ready for a sexual relationship anyway :/

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  • dybex
    10 years ago

    "Why does he?" Because your vagina is amazing and your BF thinks you're so hot.

    What's the problem? Do you not love your vagina too? :(

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  • _Molotov_Cocktail_
    10 years ago

    You should keep a bakers dozen of molotov cocktails near you so he know's you're not to be messed with.

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    He's probably trying to get you aroused. Possibly leading to an orgasm.

    If you're not enjoying it just tell him, then he can either stop if you want him to stop or get the right spot if you want him to continue.

    I know my fiance does this during foreplay all the time, but he has terrible aim so often just rubs the wrong area. If he does it right though he may be able to get you to acheive orgasm.

    If you don't want that though just tell him outright. Or at least shove his hand away next time he tries

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