Is it normal that my boyfriend feels guilty when i give him oral?

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He doesn't like me kneeling in front of him, so we do it on the bed. When I asked him why he told me he thinks it makes me look inferior and he doesn't want me to feel degraded.

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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago

    I have never heard mad ramblings such as this.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    I hate the word "degrade" when it comes to sex.
    CONSENSUAL sex between ADULTS is never degrading. EVER.

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  • oicuwantit2
    11 years ago

    I cant imagine feeling guilty about any act that is consentual but there are personal preferences.

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  • mitochondria
    11 years ago

    My boyfriend said the same thing to me because I gave him his first and he'd only ever seen head in porn, and it tends to be sorta rough/for-the-guys-only in porn. If all you really see is porn-head, I guess it would be sorta hard to imagine affectionate fellatio.
    /Kanyeshrug

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Ok I'm his first, so maybe that's why...

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    Maybe he doesn't want you to be in a submissive position.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    It used to make me feel guilty too. Not so much any more.

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  • ygrowup
    11 years ago

    Yes normal, but still so wonderful!

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