Is it normal that my boyfriend don't want to see me a lot?

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Is it normal that I see my boyfriend only once in a week? While all my friends are seeing their girlfriend/boyfriend everyday! He is studying in a university and i'm at college. I'm 17, he is 19. And he doesn't like to send me text (well, he says that his cellphone is bugging but I saw that it wasnt really true, it's only a bit slower) and he doesn't like to talk with me on the phone either. When I see him, he looks really in love, so am I. But I just don't think it is normal for a couple to see each other once in a while. Please help.

Ps: he is always saying that he is studying. Could it be true :0?

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    If you see someone too often you burn the relationship out a lot faster. If it's really going somewhere you'll see him everyday if you marry him - then you'll be complaining he''s always under your feet.

    Use your free time to get an education and not worrying over this trivial nonsense.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    that is good for his/your futures for him to study now

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    He is 2 years older than you. This is probably the most important time for him in terms of education ever. He should be studying now, even though it is hard on you. I'm sure it is hard on him as well. Stay with him, give him some time. You should probably be studying as well!

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      Thanks for the comment! I guess it is normal after all!

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    • littlelulu1999
      12 years ago

      I agree with dom180....furthermore, remember that 'distance makes the heart grow fonder'

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  • Solophonic
    12 years ago

    I only get to see my girlfriend once a week, we mostly communicate through texting but when we see each other again, it's all worth it. If it is worth it when you are together and you plan on being together more in the future, stick with him.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    You're going to school in 2 different locations.

    Perhaps he really IS concentrating on passing his classes more than he's concentrating on keeping you happy.

    perhaps you should consider trying it out.

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  • misslogical
    12 years ago

    Ps you're so young and Nieve he dun found a college girl just move on he probably wasn't all that anyways

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  • misslogical
    12 years ago

    He's probably doing what my man doing right now...cheating while I'm in the house on this site typing away...LOL gotta laugh to keep from crying

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  • cannibus14
    12 years ago

    doesn't matter if it's normal.. it's obviously making you unhappy. you need to talk to him about it, and you better find out that he really does just need to study all the time.

    i doubt he's cheating on you, but he could just be not willing to put in the effort. he might take you for granted, and know that when he wants to see you you'll be available.

    do you guys have sex every time you do actually hangout?
    that could be why he's so happy to see you in person...

    sorry this comment is so cold, but you need to do what makes you happy. you're 17! live life!

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      We don't have sex everytime. Sometimes we just hang out going movies or restaurants. But I told him but he replyed: because of my studies I don't have time, but I will. It's seems like sometimes our conversatiom are just going nowhere and that's making me sick and tired!

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      • cannibus14
        12 years ago

        Okay I've been feeling really neglected by my boyfriend, and tried telling him I think we should take a break so I can feel more independent, because every time he cancels plans with me it hurts more than it should. He seemed way too upset by the idea so I didn't go through with it, and he's trying harder now to make time. (I still think about taking a break but that's a different story). Do you think you'd be happier being apart from him, at least until he has more time for you?

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  • reach4heaven
    12 years ago

    THATS NEVER A GOOD THING, SWITCH IT UP

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  • xAstronomicx
    12 years ago

    Sounds like a lack of communication, and it could go both ways,
    He's either got you and someone else on the side and is trying to keep those from intertwine each other..
    Or he's being honest and he's just got a lot going on for him and that's the best he can do for now...
    So pick and choose wisely..

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  • :)BABYDOLL:)
    12 years ago

    Give it some time and see where it leads you.

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    • STFU23
      12 years ago

      gabby?

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  • Troll
    12 years ago

    If I were to jump off a 1084882&-883: story high building could I live?

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  • Jweezee
    12 years ago

    He just wants that ass on reserve. Meanwhile he's studying some other chicks anatomy

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      I don't think he is actually xd if he would cheat on me it would be with his hand haha

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  • SoccerStud88
    12 years ago

    hes prolly sleppin with another chick

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