Is it normal that my boyfriend doesnt want to talk to me

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I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and 3 months and he's always expressing how he doesn't want to lose me and that he needs and love me. but sometimes he acts cold and could really careless about my feelings.he's in texas and im in georgia we never meet but we are in a serious relationship and he's been more faithful to me than i've been to him and i have no doubt that he loves me but he refuse to call me and i never spoken to him befor is that normal? please comment.

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  • TurboDiesel
    12 years ago

    I'm sorry to break this to you this way, but honey, YOU ARE NOT in a serious relationship!

    You are in Georgia and he's in Texas for christ's sake!

    How old are you? How old is he?

    Is he married or does he have a girlfriend? I'd bet my farm that he is either married or has a g/f!

    He doesn't call because he is either: 1.) Too cheap, 2.) Not who he says he is, or 3.) He's cheating on someone with you.

    Get a clue... Stop with this deadbeat guy and move on.

    Did you 2 meet online by chance? Good grief!

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    • IrishPotato
      12 years ago

      Meeting online isn't the problem. Calling it a relationship without meeting, is. (FYI, I met my girlfriend online, we met up, and we've been happily together for over 3 years now.)

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  • nikkilynn25
    12 years ago

    Umm that's not a relationship....

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    • NotAgain..
      7 years ago

      Amen brotha

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  • 4theloveofdez
    12 years ago

    I'd want to speak to him, to know who he really is. Sometimes with Internet dating the person can say they are one person, and turn out to be a different gender, age and have a hidden agenda. Even if you saw their picture it might be be who they say they are. I would be cautious, an this is a red flag to me.

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  • DudeUrFuglyXox
    12 years ago

    how can it be a relationship if you never meet?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    He is with me down at manwhore alley selling his ass for cheeseburgers

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  • Coconutsss
    12 years ago

    It going to be hard to have a relatio.shiplike that it would be better to find someone close to you who you can see in person the relationship you have right now its not an actual relationship until you finally see him in person thats when it will start and by him being cold is not helpi.g

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  • Gardenia
    12 years ago

    He's cheating on you.

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  • kyanviado
    12 years ago

    I have to agree with turbo disel.

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  • RinTin
    12 years ago

    1. He's been more faithful to me than I have to him.

    ?? So you've cheated on him? How do you know he hasn't done anything with anyone? You don't know any of his friends or family I'm guessing..and you're probably a secret...Has he told anyone about you?

    2. Refuses to call/I have never spoken to him.

    That's a little..I mean very odd being that you've been together for over a year. Sounds like he's comfortable having an internet love that will never happen. If you knew his number you might keep calling him if he decided to break up with you...that's probably why he refuses to talk over the phone.

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  • 4eversleepy
    7 years ago

    just forget about him... i've been through the same situation and it hurts like HELL...now i'm moving forward and much better without him

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  • SooJung
    12 years ago

    Maybe he's been quite stressful lately, or he could be cheating on you. Try calling him?

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