Is it normal that my boyfriend doesnt want to lick me? because hes scared?

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So my boyfriend (19), and me (18) have been dating since I was 16 and he was 17.
Were really happy, even if its a long distance relationship.
We see us every month at least for a week+ or so, and on every holiday.

But we have never had am issue in sex etc.since I was always too scared for him to give me oral, but I always did It to him, since I fairly enjoyed it, and kinda do everything he wants.

But since im getting more curious I thought about him giving me it oral too, but I`ve noticed that hes often apologizing that when something with oral comes up, like me blowing him, that he cant give me the same pleasure, because hes scared of it and it kinda grosses him out? Like hes scared that it might be dirty.(Mind you I shower everyday sometimes twice and often together(like almost everytime)and I thoroughly clean my private parts EVERYTIME..) That is how I picked it up, makes me also a little insecure about my private parts but I think thats where I overreact since he loves seeing me naked but idk. since he doesn't want to give me oral, I never had a problem with it, since he was still good with his fingers etc. but its kinda bothering me now, since I just want to try it.

Is it normal, and how should I go on with ptoblem, or rather do about it?

Thanks in advance!

(also Im sorry if grammar isnt always right, this isnt my native language, and Im only 1 year into learning it)

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  • Fussmann
    3 years ago

    Never understood men who refuse this, tbh. So long as your partner is clean its a ton of fun for both parties. Breakfast, lunch and dinner whenever I've a lady in my life.

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  • litelander8
    3 years ago

    I never enjoyed letting guys go down on me until now, 26. But normally you’ve got to beat em off with a stick. If he’s fucked you and fingered you, then he knows what you smell like which is gonna be a good representation on taste. Have you tasted yourself?

    He may just be a wusspuss who isn’t into it. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    Either way y’all will breakup at some point and you’ll be amazed at how dudes love going down on chicks.

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    • Diaperdean
      3 years ago

      I'm going with he's a wuss puss!

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  • TerriAngel
    3 years ago

    He's a lost cause.
    A selfish man.
    Replace him.
    Properly done, you will LOVE oral.
    Honestly you should experiment with another girl.
    Preferably an experienced one.
    You will be amazed.
    As others pointed out.
    Make sure it's clean.
    I usually douche with just shower water.
    while I'm in the shower anyway.
    A woman who smells foul isn't sexy.

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    • Diaperdean
      3 years ago

      I agree, She says she showers every day sometimes twice. It's not a hygiene problem. He's just a selfish self centered boyfriend! especially considering that she's perfectly willing to give him oral but he refuses to reciprocate.

      DUMP HIS ASS!!

      People will tell you that sex isn't important in a relationship but it is. It really tells you a lot about the person.

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      • TerriAngel
        3 years ago

        Not only that, that selfish attitude spills over into every part of the relationship.
        Sooner or later.

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        • Diaperdean
          3 years ago

          Yep!!

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          • TerriAngel
            3 years ago

            That said, douche.
            I've seen and heard to much about women who really never learned how to scrub up.
            Properly.
            The worst I heard was the claim.
            ' it's self cleaning "
            No, it's really not.
            Body wash everything exterior.
            water flush the interior.
            Your ph will be fine.

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  • Diaperdean
    3 years ago

    So here's the scoop. You shower every day so hygiene isn't the issue. You're willing to give him oral but he won't reciprocate. That my dear girl is a selfish and self centered boyfriend. A nice clean pussy has a sweet taste to it and you shower every day (sometimes twice). HE'S NEVER TASTED IT??

    There are women out there who refuse to put a penis in their mouth. He should go hook up with one of them and you should find yourself a boyfriend who is willing to take care of your personal needs!! In other words, DUMP THAT SELFISH SELF CENTERED BASTURD!! Unless he has a bank account like Donald J Trumps. Then just keep suckin his dick.

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  • ellnell
    3 years ago

    Well if he's not into it you can't force him. Can't be that big of a deal really. Maybe you can get him try it once and see if it's so bad, he can't really know before doing it.

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  • XYXY
    3 years ago

    Give him a choice. Tell him it’s something you really want to happen so if he doesn’t do it you’ll find someone else that will.

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    • WhySoSad
      3 years ago

      I did actually ask him anyways again, and he wants to try it, but im fine with It if he doesnt like it, he should just try it, I mean idk if I will even like it.

      Thanks for the answer!

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      • Diaperdean
        3 years ago

        If he gets into it and you get into it then trust me, you WILL like it!! Oral sex is fun and it feels really good for both of you.

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  • mrblueeyes75
    3 years ago

    He must be secretly gay for the penis.... It's pretty crazy that if he is actually a straight man he ain't going crazy just wanting the taste of you in his mouth!!! WOW it is hard for me to even grasp that.. Personally it would be my pleasure to pleasure you multiple times a day every day if that was what you were into.. And i would be more than happy about it even

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  • Normal_pers0n
    3 years ago

    Maybe he's afraid he's going to get coronavirus, seriously though don't pressure him to do anything that he's not comfortable with

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  • --
    3 years ago

    I'm a bit of a wusspuss, but I eat pussy. Thing is I make em shower first.
    Same with me, I don't like getting head unless I have just showered, usually I just get head in the shower anyway.

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  • rocketdave
    3 years ago

    Find someone like me who would, after he's just cum in you, lick his knob clean and then go down on you to clean your bottom, perineum and pussy and give you an orgasm. If thar doesn't get him interested nothing will!

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  • bigbudchonga
    3 years ago

    Yeah, some guy don't go down on girls. It's a lot less than it used to be, but there are still a sizeable minority who don't like to.

    Also, does your pussy taste alright? I love eating out girls, but I hate eating out stank pussy; it really is gross.

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    • Diaperdean
      3 years ago

      If you read above she takes one or two showers a day so hygiene isn't the issue. He's just self centered. He expects her to suck his dick but he's not willing to take care of her needs.

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  • Clunk42
    3 years ago

    I get why it would kind of gross someone out. It involves putting one's mouth in a rather unsanitary spot.

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