Is it normal that my boyfriend doesn't text me when we're not together

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I am with my bf usually all the time, we pretty much live with one another. But when we're away from one another he NEVER texts me. Like he never communicates to me. Is it b/c he prolly enjoys his space when he's away from me? Or am I not on his mind? Mmm idk it's just weird I think, & to be honest, it sorta hurts.

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  • starie
    11 years ago

    Everyone needs time for themselves, even away from loved ones. It's nothing personal, it's just something we all need.

    If he spends pretty much all of his time with you then you shouldn't let it get to your head when he spends a few hours or whatever doing his own thing.

    Also, you can't expect him to be thinking about you 24/7. I know it sounds romantic and all but it isn't realistic. There have to be other sections, like... i dunno: "games"; "school";"dreams"; "family", etc... All you can ask is to have a section for you and maybe have that section be in capitals: "GIRLFRIEND" ;)

    Anyways, good luck with that.

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    • opal-leaves
      11 years ago

      Aw thanks. That's what I figured. :) like you said, I'm not going to take it personal. He's prolly doing man stuff hehe.

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      • starie
        11 years ago

        Ahaha, trust is the key (assuming he has earnt it ofc) (:

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        • opal-leaves
          11 years ago

          Oh yes I totally trust him. Are you saying that I'm worrying b/c I don't trust him? Eek hehe

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          • starie
            11 years ago

            The need to have your boyfriends thoughts only surround you might be to reassure youself he isn't thinking about anyone else.

            This probably isn't the case though. My mind just went there xP

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    11 years ago

    If you are together most of the time, yes, it is normal. Everyone needs their space.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    The important thing is that he texts you when you ARE together :]

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    • opal-leaves
      11 years ago

      Haha this is a funny reply!

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