Is it normal that my boyfriend doesn't like to kiss?

My boyfriend hasn't been big on kissing at all. He will kiss me but rarely. The kisses he gives me when he says goodbye are like tons of pecks all over. When i try to kiss him longer and with my tongue he pulls away. He says he likes kissing me, I've asked if I have bad breath and he says no. He almost gets a little defensive like he knows his answer but doesn't want to say it. When he has kissed me with his tongue, it's not that great. I wanna chalk it up to insecurity but i just honestly dont' know what's up.

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  • nuttabutta

    Rub his dick while kissing

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  • DarkEMO

    leave him alone he will kiss you when he wants to bitch

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  • Mersaphe

    He thinks you have HIV duh

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  • JayPr'zBaddest

    Similar to how I act toward my man.. my man cannot tongue kiss to save his life. I hate tongue kissing him and he always tried to stick his tongue in my mouth.. I've tried teaching him how to kiss (because I'm the one with the kissing skills) but he doesnt catch on.. maybe doesnt feel comfortable with the whole tongue thing. When I was in my teen yearss was highly disgusted with the kissing stuff...or maybe you just don't know how to kiss.

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  • Xiao-xing

    Well, lol maybe you just suck at kissing.. No offense.
    My EVERYtime he kissed me it was with his tounge halfway down my throat drooling all over me! & so I would aviod kissing him.. I really liked him though. So I endured it for another 6 months. But honestly I think that tounge kissing should be something you build up too. If that's the case for this situation then I would suggest kissing him 'passionately' for a couple minutes but don't put your tounge in his mouth.

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  • jensapa

    My BF don't like kissen either. Your a dick darkemo.

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  • gucciburr

    He isn't attracted to you

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  • ambermariemango

    I'd say he's got a fear of commitment and/ or getting attached. I'd seriously start to wonder if he is using u for something else

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  • bazwell

    After listening to your sense that he gets a bit defensive, I am inclined to think that perhaps he is Halitophobic? This may simply be a problem with hygiene. Most people (I’d give a wild guess of about 85%) brush their teeth daily, but ignore their tongues for weeks, months...years at a time. This would mean that the bacterial buildup on their tongues can cause it to change to a crusty pale shade and to develop a foul odor. The tongue is just as susceptible to dirt and plaque as the teeth are and so it needs to be brushed daily just like the teeth. This will have a tremendously positive impact on the scent of your breath because remember; the tongue is far more porous than your teeth and so will retain much more of the fluoridy/minty aroma. You might want to consider giving this a try and then getting close up to him so that he can get a whiff of that sweet perfume. Let him know that you are willing to do whatever it takes to get him comfortable passionately smooshing you.

    If this is not a hygiene issue, it may just be a preference he has. Nothing to take personally (i.e. it is an issue about him, as opposed to an issue about you). If so, just let him know how much you’d like to kiss him and know that he is enjoying it as much as you and vice versa and prepare for the possibility that this is something he may never get into.

    best of luck to you!

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  • Duke

    He's mad he sucks. It's your job to help the man out. So he blows at kissin. What the fuck, can't get better wit out kissin ya right? Feels like a chicken's peckin at your fuckin face don't it? No good.. You tell that man you need some tongue action in your life!

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  • Dotsonicide

    Um...don't listen to kashmychecks or whatever his name is. But your defenition of a kiss sounds different then his. And there are people that don't like to have passionate kisses or even the more personal kisses with the tongue. I've met girls that don't like tongue kissing, so it's normal, but it's obviously not common. Hope that helps. -DOTSON

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  • FunnyUSayThat

    how long you 2 been dating?

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  • imjustme

    some people just dont like kissing a lot. Some people like pecks but they may not like tongue.

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