Is it normal that my boyfriend doesn't cum when i give him head?

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years, and I absolutely love giving him pleasure. He really likes it when I give him head, but he's never came when I do it. He says he never has during oral sex, but he still loves it nevertheless. What do I do? I usually wouldn't go to the internet with a problem like this, but I really want to be the first to get him off by giving him a blowjob.

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  • Qoga
    12 years ago

    It's kind of like how some guys can't get off by masturbating in the shower, the wetness and stuff just makes them unable to cum. I'm the same way.

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    • volozi
      12 years ago

      this

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  • volozi
    12 years ago

    It's very rare for me to cum when getting a BJ, but it does happen. Some girls just haven't been able to do it, others can.

    Main thing is to ask him what he likes and try to do it.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Aren't you a blessing! Good for you on wanting to bring more pleasure to him, it is just technic and practice and letting him relax into it!

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  • Ramit10
    12 years ago

    When my girl gives me head it takes me awhile to get off unless she is stroking while she is sucking.

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  • suckonthis9
    12 years ago

    No this is not normal, but it is a good thing. Your boyfriend is in love with you. Some men can only cum in a woman's mouth if it's a lustful relationship.

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    • volozi
      12 years ago

      This is complete BS.

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      • suckonthis9
        12 years ago

        This is not BS. I do, however concede that I had overlooked and misinterpreted the question. The poster had clearly stated that her boyfriend has never been able to cum during oral sex. What I should have said is: Some men are like this. There are some factors that can influence this, both physical and psychological. It is also possible to be 'in love' and 'in lust' at the same instance of time. If the female enjoys pleasuring her mate in this way, and he enjoys the sensation, do it. This is part of what makes inter-personal sexual relationships interesting; that everyone is different and unique and that it is a discovery of what is mutually enjoyable.

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        • volozi
          12 years ago

          Love or lust have nothing to do with a good blowjob. I know from experience. In the past when I've been horny, I've gone and found the first hooker available, got a blowjob, and came. On more than one occasion. You don't even have to look at her or be attracted to her, though it obviously helps.

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          • suckonthis9
            12 years ago

            From your response, I will aver that you have never truly experienced a truly loving relationship. I would recommend that you are more discerning in future inter- personal relationships. I feel that you have drawn a naive conclusion because of this.

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            • volozi
              12 years ago

              I'm not sure what you're talking about. It's pretty simple, you can't just blow your load if you're not turned on and you're not being rubbed the right way. I loved my ex GF very much but she just couldn't do it for me.

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  • ChasingAfterPond<3
    12 years ago

    It is normal. Some guys just can't cum while you give them head, or it would take a lot for them to cum while they are recieving head. You can keep giving him head or try to find different techniques while you are doing it to see if it has a different effect on him.

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