Is it normal that my boyfriend doesn't care if sex hurts me?

My boyfriend loves sex! I do to, don't get me wrong, but it's hard to enjoy it when it's so painful, and sadly my boyfriend loves the painful stuff. We did anal one time and I was practically screaming in pain and crying the moment it started. Not once, even when I was crying and trying to hold in the screams of pain did he stop or ask if I was alright. After that he promised he wouldn't put me through that again, but we've done it twice since then and it was the same everytime.
Then there's the "Blowjob"... I throw up every time. After he's finished I run to the bathroom to throw up what he's done to me, and he just watches me throw up from the bedroom like he's watching tv and my pain is nothing to him. I love him so so much but I don't want to have to be in pain to please him.

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Comments ( 10 )
  • flax

    Stick a bat up his ass do he can see what it feels like. How you can live a dickhead like that is beyond me. I would smash the biggest plate I could find over his puny little head and leave.

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  • shade_ilmaendu

    Dude sounds horrible, how are you still with him? D: Get the hell out.

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  • Avant-Garde

    He sounds sadistic...

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  • cathy22

    apparently he's just using you for his own jollies.

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  • Alysin

    You really need to get out of this relationship soon. At this point it just sounds like he's using you for sex because you'll give it to him even if you don't like it.

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  • SirDaedalus

    Since you seem to have expressed that you are not a masochist, this makes him a bad sexual match for you. When he does these things, it is because he associates infliction of pain with love, and since you do not associate the reception of pain with love, this causes a problem.

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  • jam12

    He is just using you for his own sexual pleasures

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  • EnterUsernameHere

    You should dump him ASAP

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  • nobodyspecial

    He obviously doent care about you at all

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  • zetometo

    hmm i think he is one of those people who enjoys seeing people in pain theres a word for it but i forgot.
    anywho normao as in many people doing that no but their are people who do.
    you should make him get the same pain as you do maybe make him stop

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