Is it normal that my boyfriend doesn't buy me things?

You know what? I've had two fiances in my life, one currently and the other is now of course an ex. My ex would buy me whatever I desired, but the problem was, in a relationship where one person is always buying things for the other, you two become no longer equals. He began to act like he owned me. And when you're okay with a man paying for you like that all the time, it shows you don't have enough self respect to work to get it your self. My current fiance is amazing because he pushes me to succeed and to work for things that I want, instead of handing them to me. In our relationship, we split everything and I find that way more impowering and fulfilling because I know we are equals.

Stop whining. Get a job and buy your own things. He's probably broke.

My bf doesn't buy me much of anything or spoil me either. I don't know sometimes it bothers me, sometimes it doesn't. It's not a huge disfunction to not recieve lots of material gain from a love relationship, so I wouldn't worry about it...the important thing is that he treats you right.

Yes, it's actually pretty normal, and common to feel like you do. I'm a guy and I love to spoil my girl. I don't do it too often though, or else she thinks that I think I'm in charge, which I hate that, and I want equality.

Like many people said on this story, what if he's broke? Maybe he's saving up for something more important for you? Maybe he is a "cheapo."

If you're unhappy with him that much, then leave. Find a sugar daddy and have fun!
If you do love him, don't leave. Find a way to work things out.

What is his financial status like? He may simply not have the money to buy frivolous things.

I know where you're coming from. Maybe if you do it for him one day, he'll do it back for you?

That's normal, everyone feels like that once in a while, even guys.

that fucker needs to buy you what ever you want

I have never once taken a girl out shopping. Are you serious? What kind of spoiled bitch are you? Buying you a thoughtful gift is one thing, but taking you out and letting you spend his money as you see fit is ridiculous. Get over yourself. Jesus. Fucking. Christ.

lol ur cunty

I've never heard of men taking their women out shopping!! We hate dragging men round shops and they hate it too.

Anyhow, if he's 'cheap' in other ways - bin him. It's a rotten quality in someone and you certainly don't want to settle for that sort of treatment.

However, don't be jealous of women who make whores of themselves - taking money off men for services rendered.

You can get him to spend money on you at least once by getting him to want to propose to you. ;)

It's normal to feel like this when all your friends are being treated like that..but honestly who does that??

He might have no money... Go and get some by finding.a job...

Ahh I mean I meant too press yes !!! Ahahaha sorry ! X

I meant too press no sorry >< !

BMy boyfriend is broke and never buys me.things. we usually split the bill if we go out to eat. It sucks but if you live them sometimes you have to deal.

Well some people are just self centered I suppose. Oh well

Ask yourself, would you like to be bought or loved? .. I sure as hell don't care about money. I just like to be treated the way I should be. Who cares how you're friends boyfriends are. I bet they take off after taking their girls to the mall.. Relationships like that are easy to come by. It is true partnership when you can appreciate someone for what they are, rather than what they have..

female emancipation, baby.

it has two sides, you know...

Well have you taken him to a strip club and spoiled HIM with tits in his face, beers, and naked women. That would be a nice thing to do because we all know you get what you give.