Is it normal that my boyfriend does this....

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So me and this guy have been dating for 9 months and we are madly in love. We have never spent more than a week apart. We are always together.

Anyways, recently he has been hanging out with other girls. Not just one specific girl, but many different ones. And he'll post pictures of them together on fb, and every time I see them I get crushed. Also, if me and him are together girls will text him saying stuff like "I loved yesterday" or "So lucky I get to be around you" and he'll let me read them like it's no problem. Could nights ago, one of his friends texted him saying "we need to see each other more often" and it's always a different girl each time.

He says he loves me but I don't know of im comfortable with him being with a bunch of
Girls.... Is this normal that he does this?

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  • August302011
    12 years ago

    hes taking you for granted. don't let him do that to you

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  • Wilkommen
    12 years ago

    I would try to confront him about it in a nonthreatening manner. As a person who has been cheated on before I have become less trusting with relationships, but also wiser. You should generally always trust your partner, but still be aware of red flags.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    Sounds like you're already getting comfortable and settling with this guy, while he's still dating around. I think, even though he might like you, it seems like he's keeping you around as his back up in case it doesn't work out with one of those other girls. It seems like hes checking to see if theres anything better willing to have something with him. If there isn't he can fall back on you. He seems like hes pretty open about it since he shows you the messages they send you and stuff. Its no secret.

    However, it could also be that he really is considering you for something serious, and he's just getting his last moments in with these other girls before he's off the market for good.

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  • RubyCane
    12 years ago

    He Da Pimp, sugah, don't even trip!

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  • chinqbouse
    12 years ago

    my ex was the same way. except she wouldn't let me read her texts. one time i actually looked in her phone and found a photo of a naked person. i soon found out later that she was cheating on me with that same exact guy. you should drop that guy right now. save yourself from further pain. don't think he'll change cause he won't. people never change.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    AHHHHH OMG DE JA VU or something like that MY BF DID THE SAME except the text part and we dated for a week and a half HE HUNG AROUND OTHER GIRLS THEN TOLD ME TO GET LOST I THOUGHT HE JUST WANTED TO HAVE FUN WITH THEM no dirty mind comments THEN BROKE UP W/ ME AND DATED ONE OF THEM ;( I still love u Christopher Bachman of Amarillo,TX

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Who are these girls and why haven't you met them?

    Is he going out with them on his own or meeting them when he's with his mates?

    I would really want to know why he gives them his number. He could just tell them that he can't coz he has a gf and if they were to text at an inappropriate time she may not be too happy!

    It's up to you, but he sounds either desperate to be popular or a player.

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  • TareBear20
    12 years ago

    Not if you're in a steady relationship. Buut, maybe these girls are just crushing on him and you have nothing to worry about. Talk to him about it.

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