Is it normal that my boyfriend cums in two minutes tops?

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I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months now. He is my first and took my virginity. Since the beginning, he has always been quick to cum and finishes in two minutes usually. I thought if he got used to my body, it might lessen. While he always goes down on me, I really just want him to last longer since I like PinV sex. He has been with other women before me, if that helps. What should I do.

There have been times where he has lasted a good while, but it happens very rarely. What can I do? What should I say?

He and I are both 20.

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  • Hornyandhung47
    5 years ago

    Since he cumms in two minutes,it could also mean, he's just severely Horny. My suggestion is have a quicky,then after that suck him till he's hard again. He'll last longer that way. When I fuck a woman I last between thirty to fourty five minutes. I want to make sure the woman I'm screwing enjoys it just as much as me.

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  • TerriAngel
    5 years ago

    He's 20.
    Keeping hard shouldn't be an issue.
    He needs to get over the mental aspects.
    Kids learn how to please themselves.
    But feel pressure to ' finish '
    Before they get caught.
    He needs to un learn.
    1 numbing cream.
    2 wrap cock in a napkin or toilet paper.
    3 put a condom on over 1 and 2.
    He won't feel as much, he'll be a little thicker.
    He can have sex for a longer period of time.
    Get used to it, enjoy it, relax about it.
    As he gets used to it.
    You can cut back on 12and 3.
    His mind will be used to sex now.
    Not 100% guaranteed but.
    I've had it work a few times.
    Just don't mention you prefer the thicker option.

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  • SKDM007
    5 years ago

    2 minutes is pretty average, some people will cum in 20 seconds and others in 10-15 mins, if you or he feels its early its just premature ejaculation, suggestion as some listed above such as lube, but also the stop method of stop having sex or pulling out before ejaculation and giving a few seconds of a break and then carrying on can also work great, alternatively he can ejaculate 1/2 hours before sex then when sex happens the erection will be for longer, but the chances of the erection going flacid is also pretty big so foreplay and blowjobs are necessary for it to stay erect

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  • JD777
    5 years ago

    You can buy lubricant with a numbing ingredient to help him last longer. Problem is, it might numb you some, too. Or if he gets hard again pretty quick, nikkiclaire’s advice is good - let him cum fast then enjoy round two, which usually lasts longer. Best to mention it to him, because he can work on holding himself off.

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago

    Give him a blow job first and let him cum. He probably won't last forever but it should give you a few more minutes of fun.

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