Is it normal that my boyfriend compares me to shit

my boyfriend and i were watching tv,we saw a commercial were a girl pushed her mother out of her room and he said that she was a piece of shit because of the way she treated her mother. then he said "hey atleast youre better than her." then i said "what am i better than shit?" and he said yes.i got mad, and he still doesnt understand why i got mad. he thinks that calling me better than shit is better than saying youre worse than shit. he doesnt see anything wrong with what he said.

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Comments ( 42 )
  • DannyKanes

    I think bf needs a gf who doesn't over react about stupid shit

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  • Ramit10

    Im not getting this question????

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  • heckyea10

    ^ agreed. Calm down. It's not a big deal.

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  • SweetSherry

    Hahahahahaha wow that's boyfriend of yours is definitely a winner ! If it was my boyfriend I'd smack him

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  • joelsmo

    You make me laugh. get a since of humor and get over it.

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  • dappled

    Not often I find myself disagreeing with so many people, but I understand why you were upset. If it was said in an attempt to be witty, then fair enough - past girlfriends and I often teased each other, but it was always understood we didn't actually really feel that way.

    You didn't say your boyfriend was kidding, so I'm guessing he wasn't. Generally we expect the people we're with to support us, love us, nurture us and what he said doesn't seem much like those things. Especially considering how it's made you feel.

    While I agree you may have been a bit sensitive, I can see why you'd react this way.

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  • roxco

    And I feel sorry you have to read shitty advice frm people who don't know crap!! I whip my hair back and forth, I whip my hair back and forth, I whip my hair back and forth, I whip my hair back and forth, I whip my hair back and forth, I whip my,,,,,

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  • cheesey530

    Sounds like you want to be beneith shit...weirdo

    None of us guys see the problem with this, please explain why this is so bad.

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  • roxco

    It is a big fucken deal If your piece of shit boyfriend compares you to shit!!! Tell him to fuck off that the only ones who are shit are men for being assholes, cheaters, abusers, perves, liars, horndogs, and just irrational human beings!!!

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    • IAMAFUCKINGPSYCHO

      Your comment is irrational.

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    • mazgan

      now go back to the kitchen you piece of shit!

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  • MercedesBenz

    It sounds like he was just trying to be playful and make a funny couch-comment. You know the type, just sitting around bored making conversation. If he really felt to compare you to shit, he would have came up with it out of the blue and would not have needed a TV show to express his thoughts. It is apparent he was just trying to make a funny comment in context of the show.

    Now if you two are ever in a quiet room and he says, "you are only slightly better than what I shat this morning," then I would be worried. But in this context, it is really a non-issue.

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  • rico30

    Dont take it to heart. If he didn't say your a piece of....directly. forget about it till he does.

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  • penguin10

    I can understand why you're sad, I would feel the same way if he was serious. If he was joking it would be okay. Also, he might not realize how it came across. He could think you're great, but not realize how insensitive that was.

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  • Thatguy777

    He probably wasn't thinking when he said that. He probably didn't mean it in a bad way, but don't leave him over this. If you do then he was wrong, and you're worse than shit.

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  • calm down it doesnt even sound mean

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  • Jen118584

    Well? Are you a pain in the ass? Is he right?

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  • mmary89

    that thing that bugs me is that i felt like i was compare to shit.

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  • Trismegistus

    I think you are both full of shit.

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  • abnormalman

    he didn't say anything wrong, you just took it too tragically

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  • Omega-Claws

    Wow I don't see the big deal. I feel sorry for your bf, he has to put up with you

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  • Mimi69

    I feel sorry for your boyfriend.

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  • bubblicious775

    Holy shit!
    Your insane!

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  • TheW1fey

    LoL... So would you rather him say you are "shitter" than the girl in the commercial. You over reacted! Get over it and move on.

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  • russellnb

    Duno the Asshole.

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  • CreamPuffs

    He said you were better than shit. What's the problem? I'm better than shit myself. So are all the people I like, and the people I don't like. It's not a compliment, but not an insult either.

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  • NuckingFigger

    I would just cut my wrists

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  • Doggysue

    Leave him now.

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  • eats,shoots_and_leaves

    I think your boyfriend is as dumb as shit

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  • JD-795

    WOW!! WTF! he's just trying to give a complement!! RELAX!!!!!!!

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  • mazgan

    hey girl, i saw ur mother in my toilet today, to bad i had to flush her down

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  • deb

    Because the majority of guys are idiots.

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  • -WhySoSerious-

    U know what I think???

    You're that stupid ass girl who's attracted to douche bags..

    Have a look around you, and you'll see a real man who will treat you with respect... It's usually the ones who aren't obnoxious as friend.

    Fucking hate douche bags,, and hate their girls even more.. Just fucking look around you for real men!

    Oh and she's so cute she wants to see if it's normal.. just wantin' to give him an excuse for his douche bag actions. GET THE FUCK OUTTA HERE!

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  • lol

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  • flamingteeth

    uhhhhhhhhhhh

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  • randomjelly

    Dramaaaaaa

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  • timebobbu

    do what you want break up hes probably better off without you

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  • howaminotmyself

    What a funny argument to have.

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  • DannyKanes

    Lol, Roxco, I hate that song

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  • TheW1fey

    And DannyKanes, love the way you say it straight, ur one of my fav "commenters"! :)

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  • nanimeow

    I don't think he did anything wrong. Maybe if he constantly did than yes.

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  • roxco

    Are you retarded being with a guy comparing you to shit!!! Get some self esteem and dump your loser ass boyfriend tell him he has a penil dick and is lame in bed to get him back!!! Oh and that u cheated on him and gave him an STD

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