Is it normal that my boyfriend cheats on me but i don't get that mad?

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My boyfriend has cheated on me with a few different people. I love him a lot and do whatever I can to make him happy. I have never cheated on him and have been faithful to him since we first started going out almost 3 years ago. Whenever I found out he had been cheating on me, I cry for a few hours. But then we make up and pretend like it never happened. I even know who the girls are that he had sex with. I don't know why but it just doesn't bother me that much and I feel like it should.

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  • FruityGoofyFaggot
    11 years ago | pl

    When he impregnates another woman and is practically bonded to that woman via child support payments, would you still forgive him?

    When he gets an STD and passes it on to you, screwing you over for the rest of your life, would you still forgive him?

    When you both have kids, and he's out with his other women instead of being with his kids, would you still forgive him?

    If you answered yes to all these questions, then that makes you nothing more then a simple-minded peace of pavement. If you answered no, oh wait... You'd still forgive him no matter what becsuse you " love him a lot and do whatever you can to make him happy" so you deserve to suffer.

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    • Lynxikat
      11 years ago

      This a bazillion times.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    You're the person who remains silent day after day....and finally shoots everyone in the store.

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  • bananaface
    11 years ago

    If it doesn't bother you then why do you pretend that it doesn't happen? And why would you cry?

    In fact, why do you consider it cheating? If you are fine with him doing this, then have you not talked about whether you have an open relationship or not? If you haven't discussed your relationship and what each of you are comfortable with, then I suggest you do.

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    • Thewomanizer
      11 years ago

      yeah agreed, it obviously bothers you because otherwise you wouldn't cry, overtime you will eventually loose total trust in everything he says and the love will either be gone or you just wont care anymore, relationships that involve one of the partners cheating don't last and is deffinately not healthy to bury your shit under the carpet, it is sooo important to talk about things like this and/or walk away or try sort it out.

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago

    Smh.

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    • Cuntsiclestick
      11 years ago

      Exactly this.

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      • knuckles94
        9 years ago

        That's retarded your retarded

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  • Abby13
    11 years ago

    If you want to be with him, and he wants to sleep with other women, maybe you can consider an open relationship so the rules are up to you, and he can get what he wants.

    If he can't stick to those rules, he is disrespecting you and you shouldn't be in that relationship.

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  • weirdquestions1
    11 years ago

    I think I'd feel the exact same way, I mean I would care A LOT and cry too but I think I'd do anything to make him happy but I don't think I could stay with him if he kept cheating on me. sorry but you shouldn't have to feel okay with this.

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