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We have Been dating for 2 years and he still doesn't last long in bed, maybe it's two minutes or less & ive never orgasmed. Is it normal and how can he last longer?
I'm a guy... Sere isn't being shallow. Sex is for both people to be satisfied. Sere used interesting words: "only cares about getting off himself". It's the caring part... if a woman feels like she's not being cared for, she shuts down.
As for the OP, what about foreplay? Maybe you need to get off (other than intercourse) before you get him off. And by then you might be worked up enough that 2 minutes is enough for an additional O.
Asking him to get you off after is much less successful. Once we release, the interest in sex goes away completely, at least for a little while.
^ yeah but when a man always only lasts 5 mins and never takes the time to get her off after, the woman will eventually not care about or want sex. Because what's the point if the guy only cares about getting off himself?
I have same problem as a male. No matter how hard I try, I can't last longer than 5 min and usually less. I do give out a lot of foreplay to ensure she is satisfied cuz that is more important to me but I feel ashamed that I can't last longer during intercourse and ego is low.
Try the foreplay but you have to think he may be embarrassed as well.
That's crazy, how did he manage to keep you if he can't even pleasure you? There are many ways he could get you off before coming himself, he's being selfish and that's not cool.
Who cares if he lasts longer.all that counts is you guys are happy with each other.remember there are people that don't even have sex with their spouse.
Sere is not being shallow. At all.
Yes, you should really care about being happy with each other. But sex is half of the whole relationship.
If the guy isn't willing to satisfy the girl, then the person who is shallow is him.
If he isn't willing to last longer and meet her needs too, then he's just being selfish, and isn't worth anything.
There needs to be 100% effort from both of the people in the relationship to make it work.
I didn't know "lasting long" was a conscious decision? I'm pretty sure it's not.
I've had this problem at the beginning of relationships but it goes away after a short while. I feel for the guy.
Personally part of the joy of sex is getting the woman off so I doubt he does it purposely.