Is it normal that my boyfriend calls other girls gorgeous?

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I've stalked my boyfriend before and I saw that he kept calling these girls gorgeous, hot, and beautiful. it still bothers me today. I don't really show him my face as often because i feel less attractive than these girls. I just feel insecure about myself. The first time I saw (I started to cry) and I called him out. At first he got mad then he said sorry. I told him that I just don't like the fact he is showing other girls that he is interested in them. He doesn't do it as often but, he still does it. I know he wouldn't cheat on me. I just don't like it. I get this awful feeling (anxiety)mixed with jealously and all I do is cry. He's my world. I'm afraid to lose him.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    You're boyfriend-girlfriend, but you say, "I don't really show him my face as often".

    What? Do you normally wear a burka or something?

    Insecurity is pretty normal. Being emotionally involved with someone means you're opening yourself to being hurt, and you can't control what the other person thinks, says or does.

    Your boyfriend sounds pretty emotionally immature, particularly if he's still doing something he knows makes you uncomfortable. But then you sound pretty needy and immature, too.

    Work on feeling more positive about yourself. Even if you're not as attractive as the girls he calls gorgeous, appearance isn't everything, and you must have positive qualities.

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    • redrainbow22
      6 years ago

      I agree, looks dont matter

      Its not the end of the world.

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  • WeirdoMcWeirdFace
    6 years ago

    Just because he's with you doesn't mean the every other girl in the world became ugly. The dude's just saying what he sees but if he is complimenting other girls more than he does to you or he cheats then you have all the reason to be sad/angry.

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