Is it normal that my boyfriend brings up weight often?
I have been with a guy for about a year now and things are great except he brings up weight and "fat culture" sort of often. I am 164 cm and 64 kg so I am a little on the heavier side and I've always been a little self conscious and I am working on being healthier but that's a whole other thing. He talks about going on a diet and how he needs to lose weight. He has a sister that is quite overweight and says she disgusts him. And other little things like saying how much he hates that song "All about that bass" by Meghan Trainor because it encourages people to just accept being fat. I can't tell if all these things are directed at me or if he's uncomfortable with his own body or what the deal is but it makes me feel super self conscious and I absolutely dread the next time he touches me and has to feel how far from perfect I am. Am I overreacting or reading into this too much? Why does he talk about weight so much?