Is it normal that my boyfriend bestfriend hates me

Well my boy friend has a bestie and she hates me and i just wannah be friends with her but nothing what should i do?

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69% Normal
Based on 72 votes (50 yes)
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  • Faceless

    Throw her over a bridge.

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  • JEALOUS

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  • Sweetz

    She probably likes him and wants him for herself

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  • 8Serene8

    He shouldn't have a female bestie if he's dating you.

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    • I dissagree so hes not aloud to have a girl best frined just because of her gender? What if his best friend was a childhood friend who is a girl? does that mean he should throw her away just because shes a girl?

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    • VioletTrees

      What? My fiancé has female friends, and I'm fine with that. I have male friends, and he's fine with that. It's absurd to expect people in relationships to only have friends of the same sex. Also, what about gay people? Should a lesbian who's in a relationship be restricted to only having male friends?

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  • Msreagan101

    She probably Has feelings for him and now that your with him, she doesn't have a chance anymore. Or she might be feeling like your taking him away from her and that she doesn't get to spend as much time with him anymore. I don't know.

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  • Juj

    She either likes him or she wants his attention because she had it before you came along and "stole it"... If she doesn't like you either she'll get over it or she won't and shed be a jealous friend anyway. Maybe you could be like oh hangout with her today.. since you probably haven't seen much of each otter recently and then shell see your give him her time and she'll be happy and maybe come around. Eventually.

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  • Hansberger

    You're relatively normal but that's completely weird, pick a fight with him instead of enduring problems that won't go away.

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  • That's not what she asked at all!! She doesn't have a problem w the friend, the friend has a problem w her!!

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  • I'd say tell her how ur boyfriend fucks the shit outta u every nite and how good it is. That'll give her summin to hate u for.

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  • katx5

    itDuz he met this girl 2 weeks ago

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    • Does it really matter? its a foolish thing to think that one person isnt going to have atleast a couple of friends of the opposite gender. If you have male friends then I think you are a hipocrittical nusence but if not then get some male friends and see how he reacts if he sees it as a problem then you have a right to see it as a problem with this girl if he doesnt have a problem then that means he trusts you and you should show the same.

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  • Tell her "im done trying to befriend you if you dont want to be friend then we dont have to be but if you fuck around with my relationship then I will fuck with you right back.

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89

    She is clearly jealous, fuck her! (Not literally)

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