Is it normal that my boyfriend belongs to dating sites

My boyfriend and i have been together for little over a year and a half. About a year ago i caught him going on my phone looking at casual encounter posts on craigslist. I called him out on it and told him that it was not something that would be tolerated, he said he did it because he was bored and that he could never actually cheat on me, and to my knowledge he hadnt gone back on since. Now he was recently laid off, and is going to school during the day...but he is home alone at night since i work second shift. Ive been so worried that with all this new found free time he was going to do something stupid, and he just had to prove me right. Earlier this week he left his phone at home while he was at school, and i couldnt help but snoop. When i looked at his email there were messages confirming various different accounts for adult friend and cheating sites, and also a couple text messages to diff girls. I think he use to know them but they never answered him. Is it normal for guys to be curious or has he gone too far? I havent said anything to him about what i saw, bc im afraid its going to result in a breakup. I feel like this has just become the new norm bc computers are so popular.

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Based on 72 votes (7 yes)
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  • stayzz0

    You deserve a guy who wants only you, if he is focusing on someone else, it's a sign to leave.

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  • ladymantoloveyoulongtime

    yes he has gone too far. just because its on the internet, that doesnt make it right. if he was single then it would be fine but he should be committed to you and not looking for a bit of fun on the side. i would break up with him so he can have an much fun as he likes on those sites.

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    First off the fact that you are snooping shows me that there are some either trust issues are your own insecuritys. It's normal to look at cl ads. That stuff is hilarious. I would confront him. It sounds like he needs to man up and break it off with you.

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  • kaoginda

    If you two are together theres no reason why he should be on dating sites. Ask him to stop using those sites, or lose him :)

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  • madninja

    He is a cock
    Have a guy that has websites dedicated to you x

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  • killiminati

    Well the whole craigslist thing is normal sometimes me and my friends shit even my girlfriend look at those adult adds cause their hillarious and I wanna see If I know someone from like highschool on there, but the cheating sites and stuff Is not ok get out while you can confront him

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  • Dump him, let reality punch him in the face and he will be able to continue surfing on those sites because he will be single and nothing will be wrong then. I'm sure he'll enjoy not getting messages back from those sites even more when he will be single.

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  • 8Serene8

    Yup dump him. Looking or talking on the Internet is still cheating. Move on to someone decent.

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  • angelok11

    Craig's List is nothing! Start worrying when he is on Match or eHarmony.

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  • Leave

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  • Wow_Your_Weird

    Looks like he ain't only your boyfriend eh..?You should leave em ;o

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  • 68newman

    I was ok with looking at ads on craigslist. As someone else pointed out, they are funny to read. But as for actually joining sites, or corresponding with women, that's too far.

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  • lalas

    Move on just leave him alone .

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  • Mag!ck

    I would consider that cheating, he is exploring options... I don't know how you don't see it... He wants variety and you are only one, he is an ahsosle and you shouldn't be with with him or give him a break... Break it off there are better ahsosles out there, ahsosles who dont cheat

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  • Gardenia

    Wow... Yeah chick, he's cheating.
    Get out of it before you get really hurt.

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    I forgot to add o e thing. About stayzzos comment. All men look at other women. Men have a much higher labido than women.

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