Is it normal that my boyfriend and i talk about this?

80% Normal
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for less than 3 months (Nov 13) and for the past month we've been talking about more personal stuff... we've talked about sex, we've talked about marriage (we even got to the point where we were trying to figure out exactly when we were gonna get married), and we've talk about the fact that I REALLY want to have kids...
We're both raised Christians and I am still a very strong believer..
Is this normal?

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80% Normal
Based on 80 votes (64 yes)
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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Consider none of the above until you've been dating for at least 3 YEARS. If you still love / even like him after then - come back and let us know!!

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  • TheArBuilder
    9 years ago

    Duh!
    How is that not normal

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  • lollypoop
    12 years ago

    Christian?! With the way you swear at people with filthy language on this site? Well, whatever I guess.....

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  • firefly88
    12 years ago

    Whatever.

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  • sweets!!!
    12 years ago

    Its normal, however don't rush into things. Give yourselves time to really know each other before actually getting married and having children. Everything changes after your married so slow down and enjoy the moment.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Well we do know each other pretty well.. We've known each other for 3 years.. We're still talking about getting married at least within the year.. but maybe waiting for kids.. =/ which I don't like.. but oh well...

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      • sweets!!!
        12 years ago

        All I'm saying is think it through ur still young. Experience, explore n enjoy life before settling so you won't regret when ur 50. Good luck!

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  • Lucyg123
    12 years ago

    Awwwwwwwwwww

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    kid are nothing but trouble

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  • Akinia
    12 years ago

    well, i asked the same to my x's, if they didnt want kid/kids in their early 20's it'd be a dealbreaker

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  • Abnormallynormal
    12 years ago

    You won't know until you try...congrats!

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  • zchristian
    12 years ago

    If the relationship can survive athleast 2-3 years then you may hold a long time but 3 months talking about marriage lolno that wont work out to well...

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  • eAc
    12 years ago

    I guess it would depend on age of you both - when you're young it's easier to get swept up in things so you shouldn't be discussing it then. Generally the mention/joking of children and marriage is okay but I wouldn't be booking the venue or picking the names for a few years!

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  • fralanasko
    12 years ago

    maybe give it some more time... it takes a lot longer then 3 months to really get to know sombody.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Perfectly normal, I've often discussed marriage and kids with my partner, she has a son already from a previous relationship and I've grown to love him as my own, so it's kind of a given that if things stay the way they are we'll end up as a proper family one day

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  • rock-chick
    12 years ago

    me and my bf(dating for 11months goin on 12) tawk bwt dat all the time coz we love eachother and feel that we meant to be together but at the same we knw that we stll need time and loads of it to be sure dat we wanna get married so ya its normal...but use r only goin out for 3months nw and to be honest use dont knw eachother dat well so gve it sum tym and hopefully u'll b togethr 4eva

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