Is it normal that my boyfriend and his female roommate...

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Wondering if it is normal for my boyfriend and his female roommate to watch Netflix/TV shows/movies together on his bed. Supposedly it is because their other roommate is disruptive when they watch things in the living room, because he plays his video games at a loud volume and refuses to use headphones. His female roommate is cute, and she and my boyfriend go out to eat together sometimes. I don't mind that he has a cute female roommate, but the idea of them watching stuff on his bed together bothers me. When I tried to talk to him about how it makes me uncomfortable, he got angry and defensive and said it was insulting that I didn't trust him. He has hurt me before and broke my trust, but that doesn't matter to him, he blames me for not trusting him. Am I being paranoid?

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  • hokisgurl
    8 years ago

    Girl, His reaction says it all. Something is up. Not normal at all. He most likely has a crush on her while he's with you. If my husband went out with a coworker thats the same thing but married.I don't think you have mutual respect that is vital to a relationship to work, break up.

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago

    Listen very carefully, he is fucking her behind closed doors, it has nothing to do with watching tv, he is lying to you, he is a cheating bastard, kick him in the balls!

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    • HoneyBadgerChic
      8 years ago

      Do it with a running start too, that asswipe dickhead

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    So you are saying he cheated on you and you didn't dump him?
    Well that was mistake number one. Without trust there is no relationship at all, so he's really not your boyfriend, just someone you are having sex with at the moment.
    As for him getting mad, that's just his guilt, because he knows he's going to (if he isn't already) cheat on you again.
    Save yourself the heart ache and dump him now. You obviously don't trust him and he's given you no reason to do so.

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  • Caps90
    8 years ago

    No I would think that was weird. I would also be even more alarmed by the fact that he is so defensive and angry about it. He should be trying to earn your trust back, not continuing to break it. You need to re-think your relationship with this young man. What is a relationship without trust?

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  • MR.mr
    8 years ago

    No you're not being paranoid, even if he isn't doing anything wrong, he's put himself in a position that he should expect you to be skeptical of him.

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  • Shiny_Down
    8 years ago

    "He has hurt me in the past".
    End it. Not worth your emotional effort. There are more fish in the sea, hopefully you'll end up with someone who's not an asshole.

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  • Crafty
    8 years ago

    There are certain things you no longer should do if you are in a relationship. That's one of them . Be single then it's ok

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  • IMissMary
    8 years ago

    I'm jealous

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  • Blackville
    8 years ago

    Dude is banging that chick

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  • FJK_frm_AK25
    8 years ago

    If he broke ur trust b4 then no I don't think ur being unreasonable.if u told him that kinda shit makes u uncomfortable he shud respect that. Even if there's nothing going on I wudnt do it if my gd had a problem out a respect.tell him to sit on the floor.

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