Is it normal that my bff pretends to hate me?

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Okay, so, I got my old best friend mad at me for crap. I'm fine with that, but, my other best friend wants to be friends with her. She told me that and then said "But I CAN'T not be friends with you because we have to work at overnight camp together this summer!". And somehow she came up with the idea of pretending to hate me to stay friends with "both of us". Call me crazy, but I am pretty sure that is not normal. I can't do anything about it, really, because she is literally one of my only friends. All of my other old friends left me because of boys or they like my old best friend better than me. I'm just not sure if this is normal or not. Help?

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    She sounds like a user and a really shitty person to me. She's a coward and not a true friend. She only wants your friendship if and when it's convenient for her.

    It's none of my business, but why did you have the big falling out with the other friend that caused all this drama?

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    • Incomplet
      9 years ago

      That friend sounds really immature. What good is pretending to hate someone when sorting things out face-to-face has done the job better countless times in the past?

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      • RoseIsabella
        9 years ago

        That friend seems to have a pathological and codependent fear of confrontation, abandonment and rejection. She's the type of girl who's backstabbing and two faced and thinks it's normal.

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  • kelseyt
    9 years ago

    Ugh, gross, I hate girls like that.

    She's not actually your friend, OP. And you'd probably be better off without her. I suggest slowly distancing yourself from her (after your summer job ends).

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