Is it normal that my bff likes my crush but only to bother me

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Here's the thing. I have a crush on a guy from school. I told my best friend because she was dieing to know who I liked. During the summer when ever she came to my house we'd text and FaceTime him with our phones. Eventually she started to text and FaceTime him from her house without me. I didn't really care then. I figured she's allowed to talk to her friend,so who am I to stop her. When the new semester started we would always hang with him at lunch and after school. One day after school we all decided to get an app called Instagram on our phones.(an app that you can share pictures on.) It was fun, we all posted pictures and commented on them. But one day around mid October, my best friend started commenting REALLY nice things on my crush's page. And when I say really nice things I mean REALLY nice things. It bothered me a little but I didn't say anything then. One night she slept over at my house and told me she liked him as a really good friend. Then about one week later she said that he'd be her second choice to be her boyfriend. That's when I started to get mad but I still didn't say anything. Now, she posts pics saying " I love you " and stuff. And today she told him in person that she likes him. I asked my friends about it and they think she's just trying to ennoy me and make me jealous. Is it normal that my best friend would do that to me or is she just not a good friend??? Please help

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  • Mersaphe
    10 years ago

    settle for second best

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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    You have a crush but are doing nothing to take it further.

    You have no real claim on him and spending lots of time with him and your bestie is risky because they may innocently develop feelings for each other regardless of you secretly feeling entitled to claim first dibs.

    If something develops between them you'll either have to accept it or blame yourself for not talking to the boy about your feelings. If you want to know whether he sees you as romance material you're going to have to step up soon.

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  • XxPattycakexX
    11 years ago

    Well,she's obviously not a good friend. She doesn't deserve the title, "BFF". Ditch her! You don't need someone like that in your life. Find yourself a real, loyal, friend. If that were me, I would have called her out on it a long time ago. She's an attention whore and those people seek drama.

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