Is it normal that my bff is dating my ex?

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my best friend is dating one of my ex boyfriends!

yeah, but the weird thing is that she hated him! in fact SHE MADE ME BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!

I really can't say a lot of this, because I'm still in shock! when she told me that they were talking and they just fell in love my entire world came down! I mean, I don't love him any more, but still she's my best friend! and he's my ex!

and I have to say that sometimes it's a little bit awkward when I see them together.
I don't wanna know if it's normal that I feel this way 'cause I know it is.
I wanna know if it's normal that they are dating!

sometimes I think that maybe they belong together, but why now? hope you can help me!!! :/

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  • ready2rumble
    11 years ago

    I would say it is normal they are dating, but if I were you I wouldn't trust her anymore coz she just showed you that she's sneaky

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  • Ramit10
    11 years ago

    I think she made you break up with him so she could get with him. As far as her being a so call "friend" I think she is not. Im a guy tho so I think this is wrong. If one of my friends breaks up with their gf if I wanna talk to this girl I will go ask my friend if he cares or not. If he cares ill respect that and not go after her.

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    • JollyPolly
      11 years ago

      ^this. Your friend should respect you. Bros before hoes. Sisters before misters.

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  • la_uva_mojada
    10 years ago

    She's a selfish, narcisistic bitch

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  • la_uva_mojada
    11 years ago

    she's not a true friend.. she's a BITCH

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  • Subfinmatic
    11 years ago

    Isn't there a rule to never date a friend's ex? Also I was thinking what Pandabear16 said.

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  • Z3RO
    11 years ago

    You know the quote "keep your bestfriend close, but keep your enemy closer"? That's what she did to you, she FKED you up girl, bitches be crazy that's all I gotta say. But I wish you the best, follow your hearts say, not your friends

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    • ElleJ
      11 years ago

      "follow your hearts say, not your friends" I like that! thank you, I will :)))

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  • thinkingaboutit
    11 years ago

    Dude, she made you break up with him because she hated him? That's bogus. She sabotaged you.

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  • Pandabear16
    11 years ago

    Did it ever occurred to you that maybe she was just pretending to hate him and made you break up with him cuss she had feelings for him?

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    • ElleJ
      11 years ago

      of course, but I keep saying to myself that she didn't do it with that intention :/

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      • Pandabear16
        11 years ago

        Never rule out any possibilities. Either way your "BFF" isn't really worth being called your best friend for doing that to you.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I dunno, if a girl wants to date a friends ex, she should ask 1st.. Otherwise they could loose the friendship. Personal preference though. I'd be mad if she went behind my back

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    The rule is you can only date someone's ex after the same amount of time they have been together, or you have known them (if they were together when you met them) has passed since they broke up.

    If I date a girl for five years my mates have to wait five years for her to be available unless I have only been mates with them for two years then they only have to wait two.

    If I wanted to date a mates ex I'd consider this fair.

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  • iEatZombies_
    11 years ago

    Did they even care to ask how you felt about them dating? Either of them?

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    • ElleJ
      11 years ago

      nope, she just came to me one day and said: "hey, me and alex are dating, hope that's ok with you" and I haven't talked to him about it, I wanna do it but he always change the subject :/

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      • iEatZombies_
        11 years ago

        I wouldn't even bother with them. Not worth your time.
        Dating a friend's ex is debatable depending on the scenario, but the way they went about it isn't. It was plain disrespect.

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  • vertigo69
    11 years ago

    Personally, because it was so soon after you broke up they started talking, I believe she just said that cause she wanted him.. but you never know maybe she changed (trust me people change) but it you don't love him anymore then don't sweat it and just be happy that your bff is happy :)

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    • ElleJ
      11 years ago

      you're right but... it's kind of hard :/

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