Is it normal that my bf wants to spend the wknd with another girl?

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My boyfriend told me the other day he hopes it's okay that he "booked a train ticket to another town to spend the long weekend with this girl name so-and-so" because so-and-so really wants someone to celebrate/go out to party with. He'd be sleeping over at her place and won't have much time to talk.
I'm super weirded out by how he bought the ticket THEN told me on top of the whole spending the weekend with another girl. Am I being paranoid or is that a ridiculous request?

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Unless this chick is his butch lesbian cousin I would be highly concerned to tell you the truth. I mean if she's such a good "friend" why can't he take you along too? True friends generally accept that when their buddy has a significant other it's a package deal, two friends for the price of one. He sounds like a two timing douchebag!

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    • interationalponderer
      7 years ago

      I should note we're in a long-distance relationship.

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        Hmm... I still think it's weird. I also think that you could most likely do better.

        Have you ever met this dude in person?

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        • interationalponderer
          7 years ago

          My bf? Yes.

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  • Crow
    7 years ago

    It seems a little sketchy to me.

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    • RoseIsabella
      7 years ago

      Hella sketchy.

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  • Jujudog
    7 years ago

    It seems sketchy that you wrote a post after this having suddenly changed gender. No?

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    • interationalponderer
      7 years ago

      Experimenting to see if the same rules apply for the other gender.

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        People will take much less seriously if you're not being sincere, but rather just "experimenting".

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  • mypenisinyourmouth
    7 years ago

    You are in a long distance relationship with him. He asked you if it was okay to go visit a friend, who is a girl, and that will also mean that you two won't be able to talk much.

    It sounds legit to me. It really does.

    Considering that he could've told you that he is going to camp in the mountains with some dudes and that cell reception would probably be non existant...and then he could turn off his phone.

    You would never have suspected anything. So why would he tell you (what I believe is) the truth? He is a good guy.

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  • devonsweeneysGF
    7 years ago

    So and So, is that Asian?

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    He's disrespecting you big time, personally I wouldn't be putting up with it. I agree with RoseIsabella that if it were 100% innocent you would've also been invited

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    • RoseIsabella
      7 years ago

      Thanks.
      :-)

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      • Meditated
        7 years ago

        Doesnt it seem tho.....that she must be incredibly vulnerable/gullible/trusting to even have to ASK.....

        Hes going away - to spend the weekend with another girl - while they get drunk and "party" lmfaoooo

        What does she THINK is going to happen???

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  • Jujudog
    7 years ago

    Belly flop him

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  • IMissMary
    7 years ago

    Put him in an arm bar

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  • interationalponderer
    7 years ago

    I'm about 13,000km away. Oh and he just came to visit a few weeks ago.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    Elbow drop him

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    Dropkick him.

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  • flwrswhisperingnthenight
    7 years ago

    I don't know why boys do the things they do. It's sounds really awkward. I would be paranoid too. I wouldn't trust that if I were you. He's obviously up to something and I wouldn't buy it.

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  • richardgerecameinmyass
    7 years ago

    Long distance relationships rarely work out. He is spending a weekend alone with a girl at her house....come on now. You know deep down whats going on here. Have you two even met in real life? If so why isnt he spending his money on a ticket to visit you instead of some random girl who probably partakes in painal?

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  • Meditated
    7 years ago

    Curious to know how old you are.....if your older than 18 he MAY be telling the truth.

    Either way, its funny cause he has violated you loool
    Just ask him if shes Hot and watch his facial expression.
    If he says no, and seems indifferent then he's prob not into her like that.

    But hey, Liquor and opp. sex usually means....sex.

    So if hes going to "party" lmfaooo GOOD LUCK to you two :) and I hope you work it out hahhaaaa

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  • sandnigga
    7 years ago

    Could be innocent, but who knows.

    Depends on how much you trust him lol

    If you trust him then cool. But if he becomes REALLY distant to you in the future then I'd be suspicious

    But it can also just depend.

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