Is it normal that my bf wants to break up just because we argued ?

Yesterday evening i told my bf about his attacchment to his mum and sister in law and he started to scream and shout. I told him that i feel unconfortable when he hugs and kisses his mum and asked him not to do it when i'm with him. And he accused me not to appreciate his family, he claimed that i don't deserve his love. I didn't want to offend him...i just said him how i feel. I don't know how if this relationship will come to an end but i really hope it won't.i've tried to convince him that his behaviour was wrong but he didn't hear me. The thought that he could leave me...drives me mad! what should i do?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    "The thought that he could leave me...drives me mad! what should i do?"

    I would suggest growing up.

    You have no right to play the dictator and order him around - especially when it comes to his family. They will be there for him long after you're gone.

    Your demands were selfish and immature.

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    • darren3

      Agreed.

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  • overweightdoomsayer

    Mama's boys are desperate pussies who need to grow a pair.A real man doesn't need to have temper tantrums over his mom.....If he can't deal with you communicating with him about what's bothering you then fuck him!
    Dump his ass and find yourself a real man !
    ps:I bet the dude is a single child.....

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  • icanhascheezburger

    You talked to him about it already and that obviously didn't work, he's a mama's boy and is attached to her best thing to do is talk to him once more about how it makes you feel and if he doesn't want to at least try to appease you then dump him and move on to someone who will pay attention to you.

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  • DaMan

    BITCH MUSSSSSSS B TRIPPIN to tell me bout hugging or kissing my own mum - Bitch.......Get to stepping

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  • FourAMandstillgoin

    Why does it make you uncomfortable? Is there some underlying issue you have with your family? (sorry not my place to ask) but it's his mother of course he's gonna love her and stuff. You are being a bit of a child here. Please think it over :(

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  • norm

    His behavior wasn't wrong, yours was.

    He didn't break up with you because you argued, but because your arguement showed him that the two of you have vastly different values.

    He values family, you don't.

    I seriouly hope he moves on, you aren't worth his time.

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  • bulldozer

    Jealous bitch! It's his mom, that's totally wrong of you. Hope he dumps yer ass!

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    • norm

      Right on!

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  • darren3

    I didn't know it was wrong to hug/kiss your mom. Learn something everyday. It will take some work, but if I try I think I can grow to hate her. Then I'll be normal.

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  • This kid has problems. Drop kick him out of your life if he's gonna be such a baby for such a little thing like this.

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