Is it normal that my bf needs to hit/slap me to be able to orgasm?

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My boyfriend is not at all abusive to me except when having sex. I'm not into hitting during sex but he simply cannot orgasm unless he roughs me up in bed. He slaps me quite hard on my face and breasts and pulls/yanks my hair while holding me down so that I cannot move or protest. He's usually the most caring person otherwise but it's like a demon gets hold of him everytime we have sex. Is this normal?

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38% Normal
Based on 16 votes (6 yes)
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  • Jeni18
    5 years ago

    Yes it's normal. I love being treated this way. As long as he is respectful otherwise then I don't see a problem with it. I love letting guys use me but it has to all be in good fun.

    Tell him about safe words for you to use. That way if you get too scared he knows to stop.

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    • Maid_in_Pink
      5 years ago

      If he actually cannot orgasm without it, it's not normal. There is a different between a fetish and having actual mental disorders. The nature of this is a giant red flag, serial killers and serial rapist have had this same behavior pattern charted. Don't try to normalize that.

      It would be different if he was like, "oh baby lets do a little bondage and a little light torture play" but as she describes it, He's visualizing rape abuse.

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      • Jeni18
        5 years ago

        Oh maybe, i dunno. I like it tho.

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  • mata_n
    5 years ago

    It is normal if you both agree and he observes some predetermined rules. My boyfriend gets very aroused when he spanks me. It is his best foreplay and he often gives me a spanking on my bare bottom and we have a nice love making session afterwards. And he never cross the agreed line.

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  • taikage
    5 years ago

    Number 15: Burger king foot lettuce. The last thing you'd want in your Burger King burger is someone's foot fungus. But as it turns out, that might be what you get. A 4channer uploaded a photo anonymously to the site showcasing his feet in a plastic bin of lettuce. With the statement: "This is the lettuce you eat at Burger King." Admittedly, he had shoes on.

    But that's even worse.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Only if you want this too. Otherwise it is abuse.

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