Is it normal that my bf left me for a girl who is not better than me ?

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So I was with a guy for 3 years and we are so much in love it was like that as soon as we ll get done with our studies we 'll get married we would talk all day long lost in eachother so much that we had no idea what was going around but then he grew up I guess or myabe that is just how he puts it that he has grown up he started to push me away he just totally changed ge wasnt that person I loved anymore and then one day when I we were still together I caught him with this girl she use to be our senior but she didnt get good grades so now she was with us in the same grade I m not being shallow or anything m not at all a bitch I dont even bully people I dobt even hate on my enemies that is the kinda person I am but she is not at all better than me extremely cunning fat dumb dull and as far as her personality is concerned she talk alot infact she copies me its like she is took a part of me or something all of a sudden she was just like me she started to love fairytales and feel so much for women being violated but I dobt do it the way she does she puts up a status about all these society problems and long one infact which is annoying because that isnt how problems like that are solved anyways and my guy I mean my ex guy is so in love with him if someone evens says something to her and anyhow its related to me my ex abuses me for it and he really stoops low and its the most horrible feeling I have ever had I just dont know what is so good about her ?

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    She sounds like a slut, so perhaps she's a lot better in bed than you are.
    He sounds like a real jerk, so you're probably better off. Move on.

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    • lara2221
      10 years ago

      I have never slept with him but she did , my religion doesn't allow all this before marriage.

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      • thegypsysailor
        10 years ago

        There you go; you've answered your own question.

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        • lara2221
          10 years ago

          But well he kept coming back after even getting in relationship with her wanted me to be friends with him and even asked me to movie as a friend.
          And I wasn't allowed to date he wouldn't let a guy come near me , he would abuse me a call me a slut just because I talked to some guy.
          Oh and whenever we argued or he abused me and called me a slut I would tell him right away that if someone is a slut its your new gf and ,he always said that I haven't even touched her and blah blah please help me.

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          • thegypsysailor
            10 years ago

            Well I hope you are smart enough to have sent the jerk packing. I've no doubt that you can do better, (how could you not?).

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  • JaxX
    10 years ago

    Ok first off. I feel like your text is talking with peanut butter in it's mouth. Second͵ move on. When hes with the same skank in the trailer park across town with nothing but 40 bucks worth of meth and a 1993 dodge F1-50, you will smile back on this day. Keep your head up and walk forward.

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  • Buttslut
    10 years ago

    Become a Butt slut. And men will come to you like honeybees! She probably is a skank.

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    • lara2221
      10 years ago

      See I am not that kind of a girl I come from a very decent family and I really dont want men attention, honestly.
      I am just feeling stuck with my ex I am alot more than what I have become I keep degrading myself and comparing myself to his new girlfriend.
      And I now have this very low self esteem , I feel betrayed and keep thinking that what is that I lack that made him do this to me, I loved him and people would tell him that he was lucky to have me we did have a class difference but its a very cheap reason cause its not actually like that my father is rich but he doesnt believe in showing it off and having a luxurious car and a house in porsche society and all.

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      • Buttslut
        10 years ago

        Well you don't have to be a Butt slut, But I seen girls get dumped all the time. It doesn't mean she's prettier, smarter, or whatever. Guys just like variety. They get sick of looking at the same face day after day. Like My Husband has this friend who's wife is stunning. But he keeps looking at other women. And sticking his tongue through his two fingers. And making sexual gestures. So it's not really about looks, I think, they think another pussy or butt is gonna be tighter or better in some way. Which maybe they are. Find someone else. There are so many guys. And you'll stop thinking about him.

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  • vigorousjammer
    10 years ago

    Judging by the way you type, and how jealous you're coming off, he probably just got sick of of your shit and wanted to go for somebody else.

    Anyway, he's the only person who can determine if she's better for him or not, that's HIS opinion.
    Perhaps she's more intelligent than you? Maybe he thinks she's funnier? Maybe he likes her appearance more than you?

    All of those are possible, and more. Anyway, it's completely normal.

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    • Buttslut
      10 years ago

      Or maybe she's a better Buttslut. Who can Ioncecametoohard.

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  • robbieforgotpw
    10 years ago

    That sentence is too long. Did u go to school?

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    • lara2221
      10 years ago

      Yes I was just upset when I typed this, beside I use my phone so I have to open up symbols option for the commas and full stop.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    10 years ago

    Forget about them and learn to type properly.

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    • lara2221
      10 years ago

      I cant get them of my mind I am stuck .

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  • Pika-girl
    10 years ago

    Now, move on... But, he'll see how much better you are and come back!

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    • lara2221
      10 years ago

      I have been told that before but its bot as easy as it sounds it was his birthday on 21 st and mine is today on 22 , everybody gets to wish him except for me I miss him and I cried all day long even ruined my own birthday.
      I just love him so much.

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  • GreatArt
    10 years ago

    Never no what u got till it's gone...

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  • Mersaphe
    10 years ago

    How do you know she isn't better than you? Are you a lesbian?

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    • lara2221
      10 years ago

      I have got eyes and friends who know her very well she is not better than me , she is justeasy to get laid thats it.

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    I feel like this is one of those stories that needs his side as well.

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