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My bf is on here looking up key words like blowjobs and incest. He's even looking at other chicks profiles who like giving the bj a lot. It upsets me. Should I confront him or let it slide. Note if i did that there would be hell to pay.
Yeah, and maybe he'll be upset with you invading his privacy by looking at his history.
screw that he does it to me...I'm not going to say yeah it's okay you are always on my pages and I can't be on his...he's on this thing way more than I am and through my browsing I have now found out he's talking pretty flirty with another girl...looking at her tits among other things...I'm glad I did that...I was going to marry this guy but fuck that
I realise this might come as a shock to some of you, but maybe he's a guy...who likes blowjobs?
A big step I know but I'm sure there is someone out there who can at least consider the possibility.
He could be just fantasising. You have no idea what disturbing stuff can get eople's blood flowing.
OR (excuse the misogyny form one woman to another) Maybe if you were prepared to give him fellatio every once in a while and/or improve your fellatio (or at least find a way to make him think you're giving it), then he might not feel the need to look at porn as much.
Honestly, I think women overreact when they find out their parter would even dream of having sexual thoughts about other people.
from one woman to another...the way I perform fellatio is very very well...but I'm sorry to say he needs to earn that...I'm not going to perform fellatio on any man who acts like a straight douche...maybe he can get it from his internet gf...I have more respect for myself than that...I'm done
In what way has he been "a douche" as you put it other than looking at porn?!
No having private chats with his e-mail with another girl...looking at her tits among other things...If I did some crap like that he would literally try to kill me and probably succeed...Then to lie to me right to my face when I ask about it? screw that I'm not going to be in one of those relationships....he goes around telling people I would never cheat or flirt with other girls...not when I'm with someone...what a crock of shit...he also says flirting on the internet is the same as cheating so don't do it...well okay no problem...but he's doing it...him and I have talked about all of the things we expect from each other. He chose to cross that line. On top of that we've been together for two years and planned on getting married...I left my life in Michigan to be here in Colorado with him and his family. Why bring me here telling me you want a wonderful life together just to do something like this? If he doesn't want to be with me he should of been a real man about the whole situation and left my kids and I in Michigan.
Leave him, because you dont like him!!!!!!!!!!!! He is a man...if you liked him you would look up bjs with him.... I hate it when a woman cant understand a man...we are simple... we like beer, steak and bjs. if you were smart you would ask him to look up bjs and do it together......wtf
Your right, I don't like him at all so I did. He wanted to pass me around to his army buddies and stole all of my stuff while leaving my child and I homeless after he called my job and threatened to beat my ass and my managers ass. Fuck this psycho dude. I'm already home and happy it's over. Btw, he threatened me because my 80 year old manager put his arm around me and said Merry Christmas.
omg...I just looked at your profile and wow you are quite the little whore..have some self respect...the way your going your going to end up with triple aids...damn
And you're enough to give 5 different guys triple headaches.
Yet here you are judging somebody by their online profile without ever meeting them.
And you're calling her a tramp? Wtf.
Pot, Kettle...... Both black.
We all know your profile!
who cares if you know my profile...I have nothing to hide. children are not headaches sorry to tell you. They are blessings. Honestly, if you had any sort of intelligence about you than you wouldn't be as ignorant as to say what you have just said.
I think it's funny, you know you trying to insult me, because honestly I have dealt with some pretty retarded as people in my life. You see I chose not to surround myself or my children with them, so if by telling a trashy piece of shit to get the fuck out is me being a bad person, than I guess I am.
Oh and by trashy piece of shit I mean my kids dad's. You see I'm not going to be in a relationship with anyone who cheats or does drugs period and I don't have to be.
I don't regret my past for two reasons one my wonderful kids obviously and two if I didn't go through those experiences I wouldn't of learned from those mistakes. I would of never known what I was truly looking for in life. So insult away I don't really care because the truth of the matter is is that you clearly have no idea what in the hell you are talking about.
Oh and just a reminder I'm never on here saying whore ass shit. I would never present myself in that sort of way.
hahaha so funny...at least I'm not one of those pieces of shit kinda people who run away from her problems. Yeah I have made mistakes in my life everyone has. But I have learned from my mistakes and many many people have not. They keep repeating the same destructive behavior over and over. Each one of my children are a blessing, just because their father's were not good enough to be with them is not my fault. At least I had the courage to leave the pieces of crap instead of staying in a loveless hostile environment. My kids deserve better than that. So your different daddy so called insults don't really affect me. This is what I mean about other people trying to judge other people. If all you can do is try to insult everyone and not give someone advice, than how are you as an individual any better than any other ignorant person out their? Hell ya I told that girl up their who was offering to suck dick she was a whore. That type of comment gives women a bad name. I'm a firm believer that no matter how many mistakes you've made in your past, as long as your willing to learn from them and move on for the betterment of your life and your families than you are that good person. How many skeletons do you have in your closet? Better yet have you learned from your past mistakes? Have you grown as a person from them? Reading many of these comments I'm not seeing that you have. But that's cool...it's a free country sort of...say whatever you want but remember before you do, try to sound at least semi-intelligent. It helps for a good opinion.
Sounds like he's super horny. Maybe you should poke mr. winky..ya know, good little poke, no harm in that, eh?
I can't tell you it's normal and I can't tell you it's not. The thing is is it's normal for an idiot. It's not normal for an awesome guy. If you don't like it tell him. If he gives you hell break it off. As painful as it is you don't want to be someone's little bitch. (excuse my French) so I'm sure you can find some other striking young man that will love you to pieces and not act like a perv. FYI I'm a man not a woman. Take it from me if he doesn't want to change for you he isn't the right guy.
Just ask him what he's doing
He might just be looking up that stuff for amusement but seriously If your upset, deal with it and find out what's going on here
I never search your stuff Ang. I don't even have your passwords, yet you demand all of mine. I USED to search your stuff....like a year and a half ago. Maybe once or twice, but it's not a weekly or even daily thing like you do.
Wow that's funny...I think that you need to quit lying on here...you've searched my stuff so much I've down right felt violated at times. you've started fights over trivial shit and acted a fool about soooo many things. You act like you have to put up with so much from me and when you do something wrong you want to act like it's my fault. A real man admits his wrongs. Don't sit here and act like your all innocent about anything. The shit you've done to me and put me through is way worse. I've never cheated on you and I've taken care of you when you were down. I've always been there and tried to be good to you but that's not appreciated at all. your always trying to make it about you all of the time. it's always about how you feel and what you want to do. That's why I've pretty much stopped everything.
Like I didn't also take care of you? And I'm not lying, stop acting like a perfect innocent angel. I think I know why you post this garbage all over the net, because so one here knows MY side of the story. You victim complex works out great when your anonymous huh?
ummm no I don't post on the net for that reason...I post on the net for advice. I post on here because you never listen to what I have to say and trying to resolve an issue with you is impossible because you try to turn everything around and make it all about you. I'm not playing a victim role by no means. How am I playing that kind of role when your the one who commented on some chicks tits in private e-mail "joking" or not. If you ask me that's garbage. I've never told a "guy hey nice dick" while being in a relationship. Not cut from that kind of cloth