Is it normal that my bf goes to the strippers?

he doesnt respect you enough .. just walk

Depending on if the club serves alcohol or not is a big deal. He might just be going out with the boys. I actually just had stripping tank an engagement (she was doing it). At the full nude clubs the guys tend to be huge perverts and the stories i heard in the few weeks i stayed are out of this world. At clubs with booze its a lot more normal. The lies are sketchy and Prostitution is very real and accessible. Ask to go with him and bribe a stripper for info on his earlier behavior... she will most likely tell

Actually this is very normal and common. This is not to say that it is right. Seeing strippers should only be ok if the both parties are ok with it. He should not be watching strip shows if you do not want him to. If he does it is cheating. Boundaries when starting a relationship must be set before hand and agreed upon by both parties. They must be followed and not broken. If he does it without permission you Obviously do not agree.

It's normal, but its not ok if it bothers you. Based on you posting this, I'd say it does. Tell him how you feel about it, if he still does it he has no respect for you and you need to just let him go.

I'd park his ass on the kerb, he has no respect for u and u deserve better.

Hahaha im going out to the stripper club with friends that have gfs of more than 3 years and lie about it. You might be one of those gfs. I would say dont worry, its not like they were cheating, it's only a night out with lots of drugs, booze and boobs

Goes: unfortunately, yes.
Lies: unfortunately, yes.

Men, hey? Aha.
I can't speak for a guy, but as a woman I know this is all too common to see. Guys young and old go, and some guys can't help but lie.

You need to confront him about the lies, it's disrespectful, you need better.
If you've a problem with the fact he's going (not just lying), you need to make that clear. Set a limit, or ban them. He listens (not covers them!), or you walk.