Is it normal that my bf feels this way?

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Me and my bf have been going through a lot lately. From him not knowing if he wants to be with me now it turned out to him not wanting to text call or see me as much because he feels like if we spend 2 days together I shouldn't have to text you that same day we spend time already. Or he won't miss me cause he just saw me a couple days need to pass by than he'll start missing me. If we don't spend the weekend together it's ok for him he'll just relax and watch some t.v for me it's like I miss him and I'll try my way to try to travel to him. Is this normal? does he need some space? Or is he's feelings changing ? I don't know what to do or what to think it wasn't this way at the beginjng at all. He was the one who wanted to see me 2 a day and talk to me non stop

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  • Tenderlovin
    9 years ago

    It sounds like he's getting tired of the relationship, which is normal. He's not worth chasing after so, why don't you go ahead and focus on other things rather than your boyfriend.

    Feelings change over the course of a relationship, he's not going to be the same guy you met in the beginning. If he is having second thoughts that's your cue to decide if you really want to be with someone that questions being with you.

    You want him more than he wants you, that isn't an equal relationship, meaning it's not healthy. It sounds like it's a long distance relationship, don't go out of your way for anyone that doesn't want the same things you want.

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  • ZP21
    9 years ago

    i was just in something like this. (im a guy). what i would do if i were you is give him space and dont smother him too much but if you want to keep him still show that hes yours to other people like in public so he doesnt get some dumb idea like hes allowed to go do other things (we are boys and we are all dumb and get dumb ideas). also this can work but is risky becuase then he might just leave for good: stop being so affectionate to him and then he will slowly crave your attention again. lastly maybe hes gay and then hahahahaha then im sorry for you

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Some people need a lot of space. I'm like that where no matter how much I like somebody, I do not want them around all the time. I wouldn't want to be in a situation where I saw the same person everyday.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    It could be two things:

    A) He's tired of the relationship.
    B) You're smothering him too much which is leading him back to A.

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