Is it normal that my bf can last long in bed

You said it, he's your first and your inexperienced. You need to bring more foreplay into it so you both get excited...super excited and want to come faster. You need to take the reigns and find how it's most comfortable for you and if you're in pain speak up for bobs sake!

This is what I'd mostly prefer (fucking for shorter periods) I'm happy he's a healthy male but this is damaging the relationship as I feel sexually exploited sometimes. Last month I even got a UTI because of this.

Usually people complain about there partner not lasting very long. It depends on the guy, there's no time limit to when someone gets off. Same with women I can get off really fast or it can be dragged out to the point I'm begging to get off.

He might be bored with you

It's not the question of "how long you have sex for" but rather "are you both being totally fulfilled when you have sex. In other words, does he make you cum when you have sex and do you make him cum when you have sex? If not, then there is a problem regardless of the amount of time spent having sex. If you are having good sex and you both cum when having sex, but he takes too long to cum, then try improving your technique in making him cum faster. Really getting into the action emotionally and adding moans and talk about your fantasies, or telling him how you need his cum "now" when he's screwing you, might just be what he needs to get totally excited and cum faster. Be creative and sexy!

He is not normal... because most guys can't last over 20 minutes at the most! Be thankful for what you have!

Plain and simple. He likes you not for your looks, but your mind. The mind will naturally prolong an orgasm if the guy is enjoying himself, "releasing dopamin" through wanting to do it, not having to. not to fulfill an urge, but succeed in meeting yours.

this break up will end in countless hooks, up that will feel weird since you both want to get back with each other, but cant or wont. You might end up dating this guy so long, that you feel he's the one. be careful love is a wonderful yet painful experience.

With my bf, it completely depends on the position. He lasts much longer when I'm on top and that's more pleasurable for me, or for a quicker fuck we'll go him on top.

It varies. Most of the time, for me, I last around 20-40 min. But sometimes I'll shoot really quickly if I'm really horny. And sometimes I won't get hard at all if I'm not in the mood. It's funny, lots of women want a man that can last a long time and have a huge dick but when they are actually given the goods, they complain. My ex did the same thing. Like not 10 min in shed start whining about her vag hurting. But the girl I'm with now never stops me. She goes and goes and goes like the energizer bunny. So I do my best to match her stamina and usually do. It's easier for a girl to get off more quickly... But for a guy... Idk. Have him try some poppers maybe.those things throw me right over the edge. And u can get em at any sex shop.

Thanks for the feedback guys, well we just did it a few hours ago and it seems better, I did give him a bj and he nearly jizzed inside my mouth! Mmmh thanks for that tip shackleford. I also think talking to some people on here about it kind of relieved me a bit, I stopped focusing on duration and enjoyed the moment. Didn't time it this time but it felt great. I guess I will just have to be more open to him too. My religious background also has a role in this problem coz I used to feel like we are sinning everytime we fuck so mentaly I just shut down. This weekend we are getting toys and spicing things up, I wanna be seductive and free like other people too you know, :) What positions do you guys suggest? I'm also getting a porno but not too graphic and "dick in your face" kind of film.

Kink it up a bit! Get some toys change prisons

How do I tell him to slow down without shutting him off? The sex is good but after 15 min of penetration my ladybits start to feel pain and turn red. Do you think somethings wrong with me? Why can't I just enjoy it like 'other normal gals'?

I think it's more fun to fuck for shorter periods but do it multiple times with about a half hour break in between.

About an hour is normal.