Is it normal that my bf

have sex with another man..oh and tell your bf about it later

From what I gather, guys ignore the other man and just like watching their partner have sex, from a opposition other than under or on top of them.

Haha, nice one^^^

Some guys do like that, but I personally don't think that's normal. The normal, average male wouldn't want to see another man plowing his wife. That's just weird.

Yeah, some guys like it. I can only assume they want a different view.
Discuss it. If you don't like the idea, explain that and that's that, he can't make you. If you don't mind trying it, I suggest picking a good friend you trust, someone you haven't felt sexual feelings for, knows and respects your relationship and hasn't crushed on you in the past. Only do what you're comfortable. Do it once and never again, if you like it keep doing it, if you hate the idea don't try. Its your choice, your choice, he should respect your choice.