Is it normal that my bestfriend doesnt have enough time on me?

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Look, i have a bestfriend. She's a band vocalist, she has a lot of friend, she's popular. But sometimes when im with her i feel like she doesn't care about me. It's not that im jealous but you know, i can see that she's happier with her bandmates. I go with her. I always do the first move tho she is not that showy bout her feelings but i can feel that she changed. Im always out of place when im with her or her bandmates but she doesnt even care about me. Is this normal? I mean what should i do?

She's not being real to you 2
Just trust her. She is still your bestfriend 2
Stay away from her 1
Tell her what you feel 20
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  • Arm0se
    9 years ago

    How old are you? If she doesn't want to make time for you stop hanging around her.

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  • MessedUPminds
    9 years ago

    Friends grow apart all the time. It's apart of life. Don't take it personally because I'm sure she doesn't mean to be so distant with you it's just that she's going thru some changes and I'm sure you'll go thru plenty as well.
    I was once friends with this one girl and her and I were practically sisters (our moms even called us their "other daughter"). We were inseparable for the longest time. Then, I started to spend less and less time with her. I even started to realize I didn't like how I acted around her. I was mean back then; I realize that now. I was changing. The more I changed the more we separated. Now we have conversations rarely and exchange pleasantries when ever we see each other; that's about it. Am I sad about this? A little but I know it was for the best cause now I have two best friends whom I love dearly and who can understand the new me better then any of my old friends ever could have.
    So I guess my advice to you is to hold on to the friendship but don't force it. Sometimes friendships fade but that's okay because that's life; and life always finds a way of moving on.

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