Is it normal that my best friend thinks no guy is good enough for me?

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Every guy I ever talked to or ever dated she never likes. I think she always thinks that I can do better and that they aren't good enough for me. Shes more of an older sister to me so I guess she's kind of protective but it gets annoying that it seems she won't get along with any guy I date. She hates my current boyfriend and it makes it hard on me that she doesnt really support the relationship I have. I love her a lot but I wonder if she will ever think any guy is good enough for me. Is it normal to have a best friend that thinks this to this degree?

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    She sees more positives in you than you do yourself and she truly believes you could be with better men than the ones you typically fall for. That's actually a good thing because it shows she truly cares deeply for you and wants to see you succeed. However, she should keep that shit to herself unless you have asked for her opinion.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    A best friend should be happy for you as long as you are happy.

    She sounds like a selfish bitch slag bag.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Bullshit! She just wants you to be single so she can keep you to herself.

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  • Maggie2000
    10 years ago

    If she considers you to be her best friend, she must obviously like your personality and agree to some extent with your likes and dislikes. If you have a lot in common with her, she should also agree with you in most of your opinions about men. The fact that she consistently dislikes your boyfriends, or even men that you talk to, shows that she basically doesn't want you to have a boyfriend.
    Is she single? Lonely?
    Do you have other friends that do actually like your boyfriends?
    I'm sorry to say this, but she is scared of losing you as a best friend. If you think she's worth it, then try to assure her that she will still be your best female friend, but you also have every right to find happiness with a male partner.

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  • imadragon
    10 years ago

    A. She is super jealous.
    B. She really loves you.

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  • terrified13
    10 years ago

    She is NOT looking out for you, she's jealous to see you get attention from guys.

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  • Vato
    10 years ago

    This depends on the type of friend you have. If she's as good looking as you or better, she's being honest. If she's not good looking, she might be jealous. If she's single, she doesn't want to lose you and prefers to keep you single.
    I prefer to think that she's wise and sees through the guys' bs. You might like a guy for his looks but she might be thinking ahead and seeing if he's husband material for you in the future.
    Ask her what kind of guy she would like for you. Maybe she wants you to find a rich or good guy and you might have a different type in mind that's athletic, tough or asshole.

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