Is it normal that my best friend says no to sex after i said i love hi

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My best friend and I started having sex on and off for several months, it was great for both of us, then he started avoiding sex, telling me we were getting to attached. He did not have sex with anyone but me till recently. We have done everything together everyday or every other day. When we are seperated for more than 3 days, one of us is contacting the other to hang out. He tells me about the lousey sex with someone in detail, and I was far better, but others are without complications. I feel like I need to go away for awhile or start having sex with someone else who wants me. I have become attached and fell in love with him. I don't know what to do next?

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Based on 30 votes (21 yes)
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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Another example of how the friend zone back fires.

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  • davesumba
    10 years ago

    Don't expect a guy to fall for you just because you fuck him good. That doesn't put you out of the friend zone into a "maybe more" zone. It puts you into the piece of meat section.

    Here's a tip: If you want to fall for someone and have them truly fall for you, don't have sex with them at all.

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    • chica
      10 years ago

      Thank you for your feed back. We did not have sex the 5 months. It just happened. He told me after a few months that he loved me. Then the next day said he decided that he was not ready. You are probably right. I have never done that before without marriage.

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  • fsgtOIUSgfouagdfausdbfijdshfis
    10 years ago

    OMG 69% normal LOLOLOLOL NO ONE SAY YES OR NO!!!!

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  • eternalsmoke31
    10 years ago

    You only think you love him, the human body is a funny creation. Read about attachment and sex in google, might help you out.

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  • Phishy
    10 years ago

    Geez Louise. Get over it. Your friend wanted a pussy, not a relationship. Welcome to the real world.

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  • filiasan
    10 years ago

    You've broken the FWB code by becoming attached, emotionally. Also, it's probably making him uncomfortable. He might have started becoming attached, before you! That kind of relationship only works for people who are gifted in emotionally distancing themselves.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    "You will learn just how dumb you are"

    *hops up onto tree branch, grins and disappears

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    • chica
      10 years ago

      I don't know what to do next. I still see him almost everyday and I'm too available

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        He used you for sex, wanted to move on, and did it in the nicest way he could think of.

        Move on.

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