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Today my best friend replaced me for another girl . But I really hate that girl as she is trying to make me jealous how my best friend and her are now best friends, they have been sending me photos of them together and whispering In front of me
Your better off without a shitty friend like that. When they send it say "good I dont want shitty friends." And send a happy face.
Its not normal. Tell her this "If you do not want to be my friends fine. I can find a better one than you" and never talk to either of them again. They will realize how special you are when you leave and you are no longer there for them.
Doesn't sound like she was a good friend in the first place if she is willing to treat you like that now.
Don't ever let them know it bothers you. Avoid them. In all likelihood your best friend will grow tired of this new friend in a few months and want to hang out with you once more. If she doesn't, well, then you'll probably not care by then and have new friends who appreciate you.
It's normal, for people in jr high maybe. I never had that happen to me though.
Be more mature then them! Annoying girls. Don't have any contact with them and just act aloof when they are annoying you. Don't be the girl who constantly whines about being replaced, take it with a grain of salt and think wow, I am way better off without her as my friend.
I go to female gender for some reason.
If you call this guy a friend, what's it take to become an enemy? I think you need to redefine the word friend and stay away from this one for the rest of your life.
It sounds like there's probably more to the story than your post lets on, but regardless of any back story their bad behavior and seemingly wanting to rub your nose in their new found friendship is a mark of insecurity as if maybe their trying to prove something.
I would like to humbly suggest that one of the best things you can do for yourself is to not engage with these two people. It looks to me that by sending the pictures they're trying to get a rise out of you. Don't give them what they want instead try to find out what you want separate of this entire issue and go for that! Try to stay busy and throw yourself into your school or work. Seek out new extra curricular activities and or hobbies in which you hold an interest where you can meet other like-minded people and possibly make new friends.
Please know that you're not alone in experiencing the breakup of a friendship, rejection, abandonment and or betrayal. I'm a 44 year old woman and about a year and a half ago I went through a very painful situation which essentially resulted in a breakup of friendship with three other female friends. That particular clique of which I was once a part was fraught with codependency and I've tried as much as possible to see it as a learning experience. I wish you all the best!