Is it normal that my best friend doesn.t tell me everything?

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my best friend, i'm not naming names, doesn't tell me everything. i mean, isn't that the whole POINT of a best friend? i try to tell her evrything, but she always says "ok" instead of giving me feedback on what she thinks. she's always making up lots of other things with people i ABSOLUTLEY HATE, still not naming names, and ahe doesn't share them with me. there was this one time she and the girl i hate were passing notes in class and i asked her what it was and she refused to tell me so i was like "whoa der, why won't you tell me? i thought you were my bff," and she still refused so i don't get it. i'm totally confused!!!someone help!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Oh God forbid if you named them on a site filled with people that most likely still won't have any idea of who you're talking about...

    On topic. She obviously doesn't consider you as much a friend as you are to her. Ditch her role as a "BFF" and make her just a friend.

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  • iCommentNow
    12 years ago

    i agree with the above comments. from what you described, she seems disinterested in what you tell her, which is a sign that maybe she's not the bff you think. but also, just because she doesn't tell you every single detail of her life doesn't mean you guys aren't friends. my advice? either pull back and stop considering her your "best" friend, or sit her down and talk about the friendship. don't be confrontational! just have a conversation with her about it. you'll never know if you don't ask! hope this helps (:

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    Maybe, she's a shy person or feels like you wont understand her.

    That or you should get a new friend.

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