Is it normal that my best friend did this!?

Ok i have This friend and were pretty close friends. We could be closer though.i tell her almost everything and she tells me alot about her life too. We Hang out alot and she gives me advice and i give her advice. Shes kinda cold as in shes really Blunt and kind of uncaring to your feelings. If she has something to Say she won't sugar coat it. Recently she kinda got mad at me becuz I asked her to go to a party but it was too late of notice she said and I told her to calm down and I told her to stop being a bitch then she said I'm not? Then I said u always are so its hard to tell. It was a little fight we made up and we were hanging out and talking again. Then weeks later I was gonna add a picture of us on fb and I couldn't find her so I looked her up and it said cant be found I asked my other friend if she had her and she said yes still

I thought it was pretty odd so I did more research and found out she blocked me off of everything. Her instagram, vine, twitter. I asked her what I did to make her delete me and I said if I was being annoying on fb becuz I do like alot of her fb pictures but not anything else, I told her she could have told me the problem instead of deleting me. Then she didn't reply so I got mad and said I don't want to be your friend anymore cuz that's shady and I cant trust you and i told her how fucked up that was cuz we weren't in a fight at all it was weeks later after our little fight that I this happened and it wasnt even a fight it was a argument. It was litterly out of the blue for no reason. We weren't fighting, nothing was wrong.

Were suppous to be best friends and I know for a fact she still has people on her fb she hates so I don't understand why she deleted me from everything? She wasn't mad at me because I hanged out with her the morning that I found that she blocked me off of everything. And I don't think she's hiding anything from me because she told me that day that my ex was hitting on her and she even showed me the messages on fb of what she said to him so if I can trust her with that what could she be hiding?

It just doesn't make any since to me at all why she did it. And when I asked her why she didn't even text me back? Does anyone know if this is normal? Why did she such a shady thing?

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Based on 43 votes (5 yes)
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Comments ( 32 )
  • TheProph

    It's normal if you're 15 or under. If you're older than that, it's not normal, it's sad and pathetic.

    You don't need "friends" like that.

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    • Ya I'm 18

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      • Try to kill yourself with a fridge magnet. It's super hard to do and I will think you're cool.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I'm glad I don't even do Face Book!

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  • RoseIsabella

    It sounds like this person wasn't your "best friend" after all.

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  • Cold story bro

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Breathe and use punctuation.

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  • elizabethcollins

    You said she's upfront, and doesn't sugar coat things. I'd say she's just a little 2 faced and can't handle the truth about herself. Move on to better friends and delete that weirdo outta your life permanently!!

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    • robbieforgotpw

      @OP
      Nice book I read it while taking a dump

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    • Yep couldn't say it better myself

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  • SHAKEStheClown

    There is the distinct possibility that you're both screaming assholes

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  • randomthoughts

    Strange friend of yours. So just to reassure that I'm right are you still talking even though she blocked u on fb? If so then that's weird id ask her straight up in person and say something like 'hey why did u delete me, did i upset u on fb or..? Also not sure if this helps but I deleted a couple close friends off fb when I had a fall out since it made me angry and stuff when I saw them. One my close friends I kept I'll call her person 1 because she means more to me though I still haven't added her on facebook cause it's kinda painful to see her still hanging out with my ex friend (person 2) that's still her friend (oh and I hate that person, I only care about friend 1 lol)as person 2 is a total bitch and so shallow. Anyways in your case you could have touched upon a soft point meaning that you reflected the truth by telling her to her face that she's always a bitch. So maybe that's why she deleted ya..

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    • Ya but everything was good after and we got in worst fights so I don't understand. And we were talking even when she blocked me off of all her social networking sites until I found out and I already told her I dont wanna be her friend anymore I cant just ask her why again in person when I already did on text and started freaking out.

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      • randomthoughts

        A) Well if you really don't wanna be friends anymore, move on and ignore her or B- ask her to her face since she wil have to give you some sort of answer since it's easier to make up bull through electronic means such as txting or fb.

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  • Don't worry. You will find another pussy to lick.

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  • Thorolf

    She's a fucking degenerate.

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  • AgentHitGirl

    My friend is a lot like that! She is annoying as crap, makes fun of me, and calls me names, and treats me like shit ever since I came out as Bisexual! Although the reason I'm still friends with her us because I used to have a crush on her but then I got over her but I still have feelings for her (SOME feelings!!!) But it's really stupid cause she starts these stupid fights for either shit I didn't even do, or shit I was joking about!!! I hate her so much but she means so much to me!!

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  • lola215

    sounds like she needs a good kick in the kisser.

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  • pacinoharmon

    Wow, that's pretty low. Especially since y'all were "best friends," and should be straight forward with each other. From what you said, it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. Of course being ignored hurts no matter what, so I can't really help you there other than sympathy, but you can at least take comfort in knowing it's not your fault.

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  • fullhouse

    Grow up! You don't need her if she dosen't need you. You say sorry(even though she's supposed to) n leave her. If she realises that she's being a bitch she'll come to you n apologise. Else good riddence

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    • Wtf? Grow up? I didn't say I was gonna be her friend again. Calm the fuck down

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  • o_0

    that song suits your situation :

    what hurts the most, is being so close
    having so much to say and watching you walkaway.
    and never knowing what could've been .... :)

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  • Rainbow_Cookie

    Maybe she decided to date your ex? Or started to flirt back with him? The reason I think that is because you said you were still talking even when she had already blocked you from fb (before you realized) so it seems like she was hiding something in particular from facebook.... I think that was it. But it's just my opinion :)

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    • Good analogy but she has a bf and my ex moved just a couple days ago

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  • Karmasbitch

    It could just be her personality, some people just have bitchy personalities (my ex is one of them) i wouldn't stress about it and try to find a new friend =]

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    • Her personality is bitchy. When people say she's a bitch to other people other people say that's just her personality. Its pretty bad when people think being a bitch just comes naturally to you. And ya I'm done with her. She's fucked in the head and doesn't care about anyone

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      • PureLikeSnow

        Thank goodness you made the right decision. Your former friend is extremely passive-aggressive; for her to do something like that to you isn't normal, yet not unheard of. What appealed to me the most is that she's not afraid to be blunt and straightforward, but if an opposing party treats her the same way, then she flips her shit in a condescending manner and attempts to elude the problem at all costs instead of finding a solution. Search for better friends, there's no valid reason as to why you should keep her around.

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        • Ya that's exactly it. I never am rude to her I like to think of her feelings before I say things. Im only rude to her when I'm extremely mad and that doesn't happen often and that's because she doesn't care about my feelings but I'm suppous to care about hers. Thanks I won't ever be her friend again

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      • RoseIsabella

        Oh God, I hate when people say that shit! Some woman is a bitch or some guy is a creep and people say it's just her/his personality. I figure I don't have to put up with that and distance myself from the person and whoever thinks I have to put up with said person can kiss my arse. Life's too short to waste on assholes. I'm glad you're done with her sorry ass.

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      • Karmasbitch

        Yeah, some people are just too stupid to understand compassion and how to treat others. Good for you for being done! =]

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  • She seems like a cold hearted person to me. I would move on and find more caring friends who mesh better with your personality. Who cares if you have a history with her. It looks like it was a rocky one.

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  • handsignals

    What is this 'War and fucking Peace' I can't read all shit. 'Simplify man'

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